official break up thread

[juunk]

i wanted to break it off with m gf cause it was shitty, but i was gonna wait til after i was done being really busy, but then she came to my house and broke up with me! it was great, no hurt feelings or anything

[Dropt]

A quick update. I've been pretty much living at a friend's the entire time. Helps a lot (money-wise too), along with going out and hooking up with new chicks. Although a few of them turned out to be really nuts.

I had dinner with her last week and whilst we muttered that we miss each others, I'm slowing things down as I'm dating someone right now. I have no idea what's gonna happen - life sure is unsettling at times.

Edited April 22, 2013 by Dropt

[Mr HaGa]

Although a few of them turned out to be really nuts.

Crazy chicks are the best...

[scientifick]

temporarily

[Mr HaGa]

^when they stop sending nudes and start sending self mutilation pics...

[e0d9n0b5]

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Edited September 1, 2013 by e0d9n0b5

[Fycus]

aww shucks sorry ed- keep your eye on the prize. gta v out in 2 weeks

Edited September 1, 2013 by Fycus

[e0d9n0b5]

thanks fycus

[e0d9n0b5]

 

just watching this and crying.. why did such a beautiful game hav eto die

[david10d]

because dumbasses started playing lol

[Fycus]

i still play surf maps and classic deathmatch 1.6 every blue moon

[tac0tron]

This is 4 months overdue..

 

My gf of 3 years broke up with me, saying that there were some problems of her own that she needed to handle on her own and that she'd like to stay single for the duration of her education. She also rationalized the break up as giving me less of a distraction from school even though I wasn't distracted much by the relationship at all. I am still not over her, still quite in love.

 

Earlier this week I found out she's seeing some guy 7 years older than her with two kids. Fuck.

[jackg]

This is 4 months overdue..

 

My gf of 3 years broke up with me, saying that there were some problems of her own that she needed to handle on her own and that she'd like to stay single for the duration of her education. She also rationalized the break up as giving me less of a distraction from school even though I wasn't distracted much by the relationship at all. I am still not over her, still quite in love.

 

Earlier this week I found out she's seeing some guy 7 years older than her with two kids. Fuck.

Sorry to hear that pal. Chin up. 

[StrangeLove]

you'll be aight.

 

I want to break up with girl but when i get close to it she starts crying...

[Fycus]

This is 4 months overdue..

 

My gf of 3 years broke up with me, saying that there were some problems of her own that she needed to handle on her own and that she'd like to stay single for the duration of her education. She also rationalized the break up as giving me less of a distraction from school even though I wasn't distracted much by the relationship at all. I am still not over her, still quite in love.

 

Earlier this week I found out she's seeing some guy 7 years older than her with two kids. Fuck.

It probably sucks, but if she's doing that you got out of a bad situation. Unless she is really in love with the dude (chances are she just gets more attention from him) it will just be a phase, and not a real thing. Don't let her come crawling back to you or get your feelings caught again, that happens far too often in these situations. 

 

you'll be aight.

 

I want to break up with girl but when i get close to it she starts crying...

 

If you have been through enough relationships you know that it pretty much can only go this way. Nobody said breakups are easy, just bite the bullet and move on. Let the girl cry, then resent you, then start dating somebody else within a month or two, then talk to you like nothing happened and you're still friends after 3 months. It's pretty common with some of the girls I've dated.

Edited September 2, 2013 by Fycus

[gfunkdocta]

I want you to go to your nearest gym and lift. Lift your fucking heart out. Hit the bench press and hit some shit you never fucking hit before. I want you to go in there and hit every damn machine and free weight there is. Does it upset you knowing that this girl of your dreams is out there somewhere on her knees to another man? Does it upset you that the girl of your dreams is opening up herself so another man can fuck her? Does it upset you that she's placing another mans dick in and out of her mouth submitting her whole existence to this man? Does this not anger you? Submitting her flesh to another mere man such as yourself? Does it not upset you? Does it? I hope it fucking upsets you I hope it makes you rage. I hope you throw those 100 lb dumbells around like she's getting thrown around. Go to that fucking gym and give it your all. I want you to scream on that last rep. Scream and grunt your heart out. Failure won't get you the girl of your dreams to submit her everything to you. Lift that fucking weight. Rage. Become the best fucking man on the planet. Next time you see her whether it be at the mall, in person with her man you step the fuck up to her like the alpha man you are and push the squirt she's with aside and you take her home and you make her submit her everything. You make her suck your dick because she knows how alpha you are. She goes home and blogs about alpha you were and she blabbers to her friends. All the while you're in the gym banging her and every 8.5/10 through times square.

[OkayOkay]

That was intense, not sure how to follow up but agree with most except the anger and fucking her again, not worth it to dip back in usually.

I'm sometimes the guy on the other side of that story, and I can tell you...the fascination with older guys / kids doesn't last. Most younger women get all intoxicated at the idea of an older, and seemingly stable, guy with kids. A single Dad is like like catnip for girls, like a cute puppy but stronger. It triggers girl's maternal instincts and lots of times they trip over themselves trying to immerse themselves in the "family" life. I can tell you, it rarely works out. She's going to be disappointed when the novelty wears off and realizes his attention is split multiple ways, right at a time in her life when getting attention is her first priority. We (older guys with kids) tend to not have the patience for young girl games, and have other shit to focus on instead of being wrapped up satisfying younger women's insecurities. I know it hurts to lose someone you care so much for, but I can almost guarantee you she will come back / reach out to you in a couple months when she realizes how hard it is to keep up with his life. Your choice what to do with her then, but like said above, the single best thing you can do is spend as much time as possible authentically investing in yourself. Take the time to build yourself better than you ever thought possible and you'll be so much happier in the long run.

[CBM]

Can speak from experience here, my ex broke up with me about a year and half ago and wanted to be single and whatnot. Next thing I hear, she was dating this older guy she used to work with who was always around and always "just friends" with her back when we were dating. They moved interstate and I caught up with her recently, having had enough time to be okay with the situation. Turns out they're now in an open relationship, and she couldn't wait to tell me that heaps of people in her acting classes want to fuck her. I don't know who had the idea of the open relationship, but I can only assume it was her way of being able to explore other options whilst still having the security (living arrangements, etc) that comes with the dude she left me for. If they're happy and it works, good for them, but in the end, I can't help but feel a bit sorry for this guy I used to absolutely hate.

What I'm basically trying to say is that time changes everything and puts things into perspective. You'll be fine, but it'll take awhile and that interim period is going to suck.

Edited September 3, 2013 by CBM

[tac0tron]

Thank you everyone, for the much needed advice :') I really do need to take the time to get my shit together and improve myself!

[DaBestSpoona]

same shit happened to me, cept it was her college professor who had kids her age.  I was depressed for almost 2 years, focused on my career, made a shit load of money, discovered jbzs and life has been good for the last 10 years.

Edited September 3, 2013 by DaBestSpoona

[scientifick]

just watching this and crying.. why did such a beautiful game hav eto die

forget all womens lets fund a sufu server/vent and pug 4 eva

[e0d9n0b5]

forget all womens lets fund a sufu server/vent and pug 4 eva

fuk that bryanrb gona drop 40 on me every game til i quit =[

 

i was never good at 1.6 just source lol

[dovo]

as i sit here with my face scratched to shit. I've realized that my potential wife has left me. but for some reason i am not sad. maybe it hasn't hit me yet. maybe I'm relieved in a sense. i don't fucking know. 

 

 

i loved her. i fucking loved her. but i will not be a simp fuck boi. i can not and neither can anyone else going through this. thought she was the one but how many fucking times have i said that shit? 

 

my face will not bleed in vein. time to pump more iron, get more money, and live this fucking life of mine bros. fucking live it. 

 

maybe well get back together. hopefully. shits go to change though. dovo don't chase women's. 

 

you can find me stuntin from now in in supermeatheads and maybe even my 2nd waywt? maybe even the tattoo thread. 

 

I'm out here. who fuckin wit me?

[e0d9n0b5]

we are dovo, we are!

[sawyer]

ive been about that monastic life for a hot minute we out here keepin dicks dry and contemplating death

[wrong_move]

you can find me stuntin from now in in supermeatheads

 

Requesting transformation pics for motivation no homo

[conqueror]

my girlfriend is moving to the US in 3 weeks for at least a year and potentially indefinitely if she gets a greencard or sponsored. it has been a perfect relationship in every way and i am completely heartbroken.

Edited October 8, 2013 by conqueror

[burgerking]

my girlfriend (soon to be my ex, i guess) is moving to the US in 3 weeks for at least a year and potentially indefinitely if she gets a greencard or sponsored. it has been a perfect relationship in every way and i am completely heartbroken.

you don't want to follow her?

[conqueror]

you don't want to follow her?

i am not eligible for the visa she is going on (J1) - the only thing i can legally do is visit on a tourist visa. visiting would not be such a problem if she was staying for a year, but if she is staying indefinitely then...yeah. thinking of saying goodbye makes me feel physically sick.

Edited September 24, 2013 by conqueror

[OkayOkay]

fuck, so sorry to hear man. It's terrible when it's by no fault of your own or hers, just paths take different turns. There isn't any real advice other than keep your head up. What's the deal on her side? Just an opportunity she didn't want to pass on? I know you could probably push her to stay, but letting her go if she's pursuing something she wants to go after is really bold, and says a lot about your character. Hope you hang in there ok.