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^ screwed myself over financially many a time because i deal with self-discipline issues. it's almost like i have a disconnect with the amount of money in the bank and the amount i think i have. ughhhh

on a similar note, i can't get myself to concentrate on a subject without the assistance of meds. any tips, sufu study club?

http://matt.might.net/articles/productivity-tips-hints-hacks-tricks-for-grad-students-academics/

tl;dr – turn off your computer, write shit on paper.

Just fb messengered this chick I been all about for like a year or so even though she's rejected me over and over. Shell hit me up sometimes and I get those damn hopes up. I don't know why I like this bitch. Hit her up on fb messenger and hoe logged out. Feel like a super creeper right now.

Yo Snap, imo if its really really something you want to do why not go for it? Maybe find a job in between time to eat and kop shit and just keep your eyes open for an opportunity?

Facebook game is djraijo territory. Unless you're pulling in 10s at the club and bar, keep all that shit IRL. It's way too easy for bitches to misinterpret attraction as creepiness.

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i cant help but feeling like a dick for spending so much money on streetwear in the past. I feel weird wearing that shit now that im a working man.

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Been dating a girl for a while.. it's kinda serious but we moved to different cities in the middle of it and she doesn't want to be in an "official" relationship if we're living in different cities. So, technically I'm single but sometimes I feel like I'm in a relationship. Fast forward, now I'm dating another girl at the same time, who lives in the same city as me. I told her I don't want anything serious but I could see it going in that direction. How do I juggle this shit without getting in trouble with both of them? Or am I fucked? Need some advice sufu.

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don't juggle. don't lie. you'll just get caught and lose both. make a decision. i'd probably go with the local one.

edit:

as of this post, i have 2 more rep than you. that made me hehe.

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just don't say anything and proceed, when a decision is forced upon you then choose. Feel it out until its right, neither of you are exclusive so fuck it.

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^^Now you have 99 more, enjoy.

And Scott, thanks for the advice. That's what I've been doing but it's starting to stress me out at times so I figured I'd seek advice.

edit: now I'm beating you Funkdoobie :P

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Been dating a girl for a while.. it's kinda serious but we moved to different cities in the middle of it and she doesn't want to be in an "official" relationship if we're living in different cities. So, technically I'm single but sometimes I feel like I'm in a relationship. Fast forward, now I'm dating another girl at the same time, who lives in the same city as me. I told her I don't want anything serious but I could see it going in that direction. How do I juggle this shit without getting in trouble with both of them? Or am I fucked? Need some advice sufu.

why choose?

let things naturally unfold

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I feel like if I make a choice then less drama will ensue. We'll see though.

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the sooner you make a decision, the less drama that will follow. i also just bumped your shit up (yes homo). you'll break 10k soon!

edit: er i suck at math. i need sleep.

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I have a student board meeting tomorrow for some girl snitching on me that I sold her a dime of weed. I could get evicted and my parents don't even know. fml

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I have a habit of asking people to put me on the guestlist of their event and not showing up to the event at all.

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Why is the University Common Application so confusing?

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the sooner you make a decision, the less drama that will follow. i also just bumped your shit up (yes homo). you'll break 10k soon!

edit: i'm now only 5 rep ahead of you. lol. 9905 to 9990.

You sure about the math there?

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bahahahaha how old are you dude? (no hate, it might just make shit even funnier)

If this is directed to me, I'm about to turn 18 on the seventh. The funny thing is that I live in SF and people smoke weed on campus all the time.

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It's tough, but you gotta take it literally when she calls it "unofficial". I'd keep dating both, have fun, but do everything you can to make sure everyone is aware of the situation. Last thing you want is to build up the new girl's hopes then crush her. That's not fair for anyone. It'll be hard to be honest, but the girls will appreciate it, and you'll feel like a better man.

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If this is directed to me, I'm about to turn 18 on the seventh. The funny thing is that I live in SF and people smoke weed on campus all the time.

Wow... Why did she snitch? Any beef at all? Did you smash her younger sister?

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Wow... Why did she snitch? Any beef at all? Did you smash her younger sister?

Nope, just a homie selling a friend some weed. They were high and I guess she got scared and then the cops went through my phone and shit, found my drugs/pipe, etc., luckily not my scale, though. It's really not that hard to lie and say you bought weed from some hobo off the street. but yeah, story of my life

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I feel exceptionally unappreciated. All the time. I think I do quite a bit for others, and really don't expect anything in return, but fuck...a simple thank you or a "hey man, I honestly appreciate that" would feel really good. I've given a healthy handful of ex employees a HUGE opportunity to grow and excel, and let them make all their mistakes with me instead of further down the line where it really matters, and they never call or write to say how much they appreciated it. I know it's valuable cause I was in their shoes at one time, and I called my old manager and store owner and thanked them profusely for what they gave me. Even fucking people coming in looking for donations, I'll put together an epic donation assortment for their raffle or whatvever, and they never say thank you or how much they appreciate us giving them shit for free. I don't ask for much... I swear to God, all these new kids that come thru have this attitude like they deserve or expect it.

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I swear to God, all these new kids that come thru have this attitude like they deserve or expect it.

it's probably cause that mentality has served them well so far.

i go out of my way to let people know i appreciate wtvr they did for me, but just like you, i find it rare to meet others like that. it's to the point where i catch myself thinking maybe i'm overdoing it or some shit but nahh fuck that.

but hey, putting that aside, people do good things for others cause they're good people not for the props.

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but hey, putting that aside, people do good things for others cause they're good people not for the props.

this was my one fear in posting that, and I know exactly what you mean. I'm not gonna stop helping people cause they don't say thank you or whatever, but I think it's totally fair to expect recognition, even a simple smile or thank you for going above and beyond for people. Like you, I do it. Even at crazy levels, I'll stack my plates and look my server in their eyes and say thank you for their help. I don't think that's at all unreasonable. Now, when people expect compensation...whole 'nother story.

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I hate deja vu so much. everytime I get it it leaves me with a sense of impending disaster.

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Been so distant from my friends lately we hang out but I'm just not feeling it. Maybe it's the weather but I usually love winter or maybe I'm just getting old and partying and what not just don't do it for me anymore.

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Yep, I got let off the hook with a suspension for a year that was ultimately reduced to a suspension for summer, writing some letters, and probation so no crazy shit on campus that could risk it for me. I feel so good right now haha

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feeling like I'm finally giving into major depression. I'm usually a highly optimistic person, and just just focus on the god things going on and ignore the tougher parts...but I've been feeling myself slip the other way for a little while now, and I think I'm headed in deep.

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