superconfessional

[CUTUP]

Saturday night's date is the most recent in a long line of women to inform me they "just want to be friends". Took it okay then, but I'm frustrated, unhappy, depressed about it now. I'm 34, and tired of being alone.

Stop being so damn friendly on your dates

Women choose whether nor not your a potential lay/boyfriend or just a friend within the first 10 seconds of a date. So stop going overboard on the curtousy and be a bit of a badass.

Women want a man who can open doors and pull out chairs as well as throw them into bed and tear them apart. If you always seem to get the friend card,chances are your a complete pushover and not enough of your own person.

You managed to get the date so your obviously a nice dude, probably just a bit boring. Stop being so damn nice all the time and disagree with her a bit, be a bit rough around the edges

Not calling you out my man, just trying to help. Your dick is my dick concept

[setterman]

Stop being so damn friendly on your dates

Oh, you're right. I'm learning that whether they're a young and dumb 26, or a 45 year old divorcee, women seem to want guys that treat them like shit.

[CUTUP]

^Not really an asshole per se, but someone with an edge

Enough of a man to take them out for a nice dinner, but enough of a badass to suggest she bury her face in his crotch afterwards.

Even something as simple as them being told you dont agree with them, or you view what they say as being incorrect seems to get them off. Most of the prettiest women only get told from men that they are right, they never get challenged.

Be that one guy who has a mind of his own and your gold IMO

[AstroWolf]

Be cocky and be funny. Be invincible.

[Nil]

^Not really an asshole per se, but someone with an edge

Enough of a man to take them out for a nice dinner, but enough of a badass to suggest she bury her face in his crotch afterwards.

Even something as simple as them being told you dont agree with them, or you view what they say as being incorrect seems to get them off. Most of the prettiest women only get told from men that they are right, they never get challenged.

Be that one guy who has a mind of his own and your gold IMO

+1 Be nice but don't be a push over.

[zerofuture]

"what say we go back to my place and I take naked pictures of you?"

NYTimes: What do Women Want?

It's important to appreciating the women are as interested / sometimes more interested in getting some as men are. That realization is a game changer. There's also importance in understanding that your showing your attraction to them (which 'nice guys' tend to be weary of doing) will, under the right conditions, be reciprocated. "Nice guys" (a category that, admittedly, I belong to) do usually propinquity quite well (and thereby do well as 'friends'); attraction is often a different story.

[RandR]

my friend sends me a picture every morning of her at work. sometimes it's her yawning, sometimes it's her with a cupcake(cupcake thread is being referenced), sometimes it's her just smiling at the webcam. I don't know why but after a month or two of this it has taken on a deeper significance. Strange.

[DaBestSpoona]

my friend sends me a picture every morning of her at work. sometimes it's her yawning, sometimes it's her with a cupcake(cupcake thread is being referenced), sometimes it's her just smiling at the webcam. I don't know why but after a month or two of this it has taken on a deeper significance. Strange.

She wants attention or sex from you or both

[RandR]

She wants attention or sex from you or both

nah, she's my best friend. It's just surprisingly soothing now when I get a picture from her, and it makes my day a lot better, you know? It's just really strange to me that something so innocuous could take on larger significance after it's been done for a while. I think that's pretty cool.

[Yardsale]

hung out with a girl yesterday she's like a female version of me. Except she seemed kind of put off when she asked me how many gf's I've had and I said "like 6 or 7". that's not even that many.

[broken_dubz]

been feeling real melancholy as of late. two months into this job, things aren't exactly turning out how i expected they would.

[shinchrono]

She wants attention or sex from you or both

nah, she's my best friend. It's just surprisingly soothing now when I get a picture from her, and it makes my day a lot better, you know? It's just really strange to me that something so innocuous could take on larger significance after it's been done for a while. I think that's pretty cool.

so...both?

[Nil]

hung out with a girl yesterday she's like a female version of me. Except she seemed kind of put off when she asked me how many gf's I've had and I said "like 6 or 7". that's not even that many.

How old are you?

Of course, I'm 28 and I don't think I've been in stable enough relationships to have called 6-7 girls my girlfriend. I think I've topped out at 5 there. Flings and casual dating get my numbers way up there though.

[fruitbrute]

Haven't done any propper studying for my test tomorrow. The scary part is that I don't even care. My freestyle skills better be wicked tomorrow or I'm fucked. Actually, I'm probably fucked either way.

[Yardsale]

What exactly was her response? or ?

I read the play-by-play of the date on her blog. Pretty glowing review, but I wonder if I never bring it up will all my dirty laundry be aired out like that

[DüM]

So the jawns and songs you thought about

I brought em out

I'm hard as hell, ya girl be bloggin bout it

[TTM]

I need a buddy who will come to bars with me so he can dare me to go up to girls and ask if they have ever had a golden shower done to them, and vise versa. that would be some good entertainment and might help me get laid better than standing around does........

[the Repeater]

nah, she's my best friend. It's just surprisingly soothing now when I get a picture from her, and it makes my day a lot better, you know? It's just really strange to me that something so innocuous could take on larger significance after it's been done for a while. I think that's pretty cool.

You're in fucking love.

Deal with it.

If it were me I'd probably get drunk, scared, then tell her and make it work. 80's movie shit, but you've got no choice.

[Guest on-display]

watched some oprah with the girl. oprah is amazing!

[gabrielbooger]

your love in a footstep my heart at the door

[gabrielbooger]

i'm grasping your hand at the rubicon, and you fall. i'm falling after you

[gabrielbooger]

my wish would be to be in your embrace until the last moment

[gabrielbooger]

we control the stars

[gabrielbooger]

keep the peace on the wave

[gabrielbooger]

you must go to the darkest edge and the brightness up to max.

[gabrielbooger]

the sharpest edge is the edge between light and dark

[fallen angels]

the sharpest edge is the edge between love and pain

[dunkin deeznuts]

it is always darkest before the dawn.....

[DüM]

…and bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks

[Scais]

.....lick on deez nuts and suck the dick