superconfessional

[wrong_move]

It's been a year since I bought any sufu-approved jawn

[mr.K-O]

fake: let's go eat...its been too long

real: cool when do you want to go

fake: whenever my man

real: let's go on this date

fake: is that the only day you can go

real: I can't go on this day, when are you free?

fake: doesn't matter to me. whenever my man. its been too long.

real: let's go on this date

fake: LA or OC

real: LA

Haven't seen this doode in over a year. Been waiting over a week for a response to confirm. My assumption is that this so called friend is backing out and I don't have the energy to reach out and chase this. Hence, not only this reason, but why I don't choose to hang. But, I'd like to say, fuck you. I have shit to do and was trying to plan my week. I hope this fool lurks sufu and sees this post. If you do, I never wanted to fucking eat with you in the first place because I had a feeling this kind of bullshit was going to happen.

[tin can]

you are coming off extremely feminine

[Denton]

if it's that big a deal you could just say all that shit to the guy

[mr.K-O]

it bothers me when someone reaches out to me and when I reach back out it ends with plans not going anywhere. why ask to meet up if you never intended to meet up? My emotions is coming off feminine and I wrote how I felt about the situation. Tell me, what would a masculine man do in this situation?

[evisu 2000]

real men don't have/express their feelings.

[mr.K-O]

this is what i needed to hear. appreciate the feedback.

[shinobi2000]

in your defense i too have felt all the indignation and frustration that you describe...but towards people i was interested in, not friends :-)

[heyheyhey]

Between me and this guy, this is turning into the bitch ass-ness thread.

[MharcI]

Im like 95% sure my mom is cheating on my dad. e beenThey've been married like 23 years, get along decently I guess. But yeah, i'm pretty sure i'm the only one who possesses this knowledge. Dunno what to do.

married like 23 years, get along decently I guess. But yeah, i'm pretty sure i'm the only one who possesses this knowledge. Dunno what to do.

[bfan]

my brain chemistry precludes sleep

Edited June 29, 2012 by bfan

[eggshell]

you paid or mommy/daddy paid? if you: make the most of it, if mommy/daddy: who cares? that's what they signed on for one horny moment years ago

you're an idiot

[shinobi2000]

you're an idiot

personally i think my logic is solid, so much so that i'm willing to entertain any notion to the contrary so go ahead and try me

[t3hcoke]

being logical doesnt make you all knowing

[evisu 2000]

personally i think my logic is solid, so much so that i'm willing to entertain any notion to the contrary so go ahead and try me

"logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence"

???

???

[saffronrevolution]

lol

[burgerking]

i haven't been on sufu since it slowed down, i miss fast sufu. :/

[shinobi2000]

being logical doesnt make you all knowing

you are absolutely correct! which is why i always leave room for the possibility of being proven wrong in all my logic endeavors (and exactly why i invited the original challenger to do so)

and mass: is there any other to come to the right/wrong conclusion? :-)

[sawyer]

if you use a condom right there's only a 2% chance of failure, and if you pull out correctly your odds are 4% so i don't think people are "signing on" to have kids when they have sex

lines like "well you know you could have a kid" have always been used to justify abstinence-only sex education and i'd rather not even go there

an analogy would sound stupid too, like "you have a 2% chance of getting mugged on the street tonight. why did you go out and have a beer? you signed on to getting mugged."

[boy better know]

if you use a condom right there's only a 2% chance of failure, and if you pull out correctly your odds are 4% so i don't think people are "signing on" to have kids when they have sex

what about std's?

[sawyer]

what about std's?

shinobi was talking about having kids, not stds. see the OP quoted in eggshell's post earlier

[lawlercopterz]

kids = uncurable std.

[wesc]

To myself: feeling stuck between work, distance gf, and life planning. stop holding off and put forth effort to move forward because your not doing yourself any favors. If she's a good woman she'll be there for you in the end.

[mr.K-O]

wesc

posted today, 12:59 pm

to myself: feeling stuck between work, distance gf, and life planning. stop holding off and put forth effort to move forward because your not doing yourself any favors. if she's a good woman she'll be there for you in the end.

I'm in the same boat and need to apply the same principles in my life.

[gettoasty]

me three minus the g/f. not sure if that is for the better or worse ...

[lmk1995]

I would rather do my workout than go see ted with my friends. realizing more and more how introverted i am.

[Stylish Pilot]

Realized how sick I've been of pretty much everyone I know and where I live. Get to travel a lot with work, but when I come home I just don't want to be there. A friend/coworker and I are talking about picking up and moving to Brooklyn for a change of scenery. Really looking forward to see what comes of it. Just doing some preliminary planning now

[lmk1995]

I would rather do my workout than go see ted with my friends. realizing more and more how introverted i am.

rearranged my whole fucking schedule so i could do my workout and go see ted. so naturally, my friends decide not to go. now i'm sitting watching the wire...again.

[OkayOkay]

as much as I try to fight it, I get way bored / restless when I'm home alone. I know some people are naturally introverted and prefer their own space, but after a couple hours alone in the eve I'm bored as fuck and gotta go do something or have someone come over. Kinda hoping I can figure out how to actually enjoy being by myself for a while and not just pretending to like it.

[gettoasty]

i play video games

catch up on some shows

fap

more games

a lot of forum lurking

gym

and with meals in between, i don't know what time it is and the hell i did all evening.

This sucks the most on a sunday when it is around 9PM i realize i have to get up early for work the next day

just read this, sort of related:

http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/06/30/the-busy-trap/?smid=tw-share

read it 3/4 way and really liked it

Edited July 4, 2012 by gettoasty