superconfessional

[american_hearts]

I am always teetering between making it and not making it every time the end of the month comes and I have to pay bills. It's time to just stop copping shit and get smart.

late pass referencing this, but I'm with you man. Reading Clockers right now and feeling like a total waste always living by that two-minute clock. It's like I don't even believe in my own future. Get 10 bucks, get that 10 dollar chain; 60 bucks, that 60 dollar steak. Time to break the pattern.

[cyberPUNK]

Terrible advice. This comes from someone who can feel pretty damn jealous at times. Relationships are about trust. If you can't put some faith into that, you'll never really have a strong bond with someone. You have to respect their privacy. It's not fair to them to want to monitor every area of their lives.

If you have an actual, legitimate reason to think she is a ho, then talk to her about it. If you still think you can't trust her, and try to be as objective as possible, then break it off, because you'll never have piece of mind with her anyway.

Some people are manipulative and try to draw jealousy out of one another.

On the other hand, your emotions are your own, and you can't let negative ones like jealousy (in my opinion one of the worst feelings of all) ruin what should otherwise be a good thing in your life.

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[haploid]

Hey man, all is fair in love and war. If you can manage to get a hold of her password, and find out she was doing some shit behind your back, that's really good for you. It's kind of bittersweet, but better you find out she's a heinous bitch now and end it, rather than finding out over a year from now and wasting more time with her.

In the end you can't really trust anyone. When it's all said and done, you will only have yourself in the end. If protecting yourself means getting access to some private files, so be it. She shouldn't have anything to hide if she has been trustworthy.

Hell, I'll give my password to my girlfriend. I have nothing to hide. She might find some asian bitch/dude trying to sell me WoW gold even though I don't play the game, but she won't find me talking nasty to some other girl or anything.

That being said, it isn't a "right" to have her e-mail password. But if you feel uneasy about her, and you get your hands on it, go for it.

Shit. You overthink things even more than I do.

[Guest on-display]

i had an ex who asked for my pw and would check on my emails delete girls comments on myspace (when it was relevant), she would message other girls telling them to back off. when i would go out and party without her she would call me and cry and make up some bs excuses etc etc

one of the worst moments of my life

MharcI she's hotter than you huh?

[redX]

on-display i hope she was worth it .-----

[Phyziks]

You guys bring up a good point. My view on relationships and trusting others is very pessimistic though. Best case he looks and finds nothing bad and he can finally relax. Although it would be better to just talk to and ask the girl, the chances of her admitting to cheating (if she did) is slim to none. If she stooped to cheating on you, there's a pretty good chance she also lacks the morals required to tell you the truth.

It's kind of like the show cheaters. You have a chance to find out the truth. If nothing is going on, there's nothing to hide. If there is something going on, you can finally learn the truth and get the fuck out of there.

But someone else said it best, and if you ask and still don't trust her, maybe it is the best bet to just end it. The next time you may not get the girl's password, so you won't be able to rely on that to find out what's going on. You just need to trust your instincts I guess.

[Caps Lock]

if my girl left her hotmail signed on i'd probably read like one email and then feel bad and pretend it never happened.

I never have any juicy emails that would be worth reading, if someone were to read my emails. They wouldnt be thrilled one bit.

[tg76]

its my mans birthday, im going out for tea with him and his daughter, im dreading seeing him incase he thinks his present is stupid... and i taught his daughter last year and havent seen her since i started dating her dad

[Guest on-display]

tg, did you guys hook up on parent teacher conference day?

[tg76]

no... but one of my year tens came to school the day after the last one going 'miss my dad likes you, like really likes you'

[Dropt]

Fuck, girls who are not showing up on a date need decapitation. First time a girl's fucking with me like that.

I'm pissed, and i'm even more pissed that i liked this one.

[goat]

i need to get my lazy ass back to the gym

[Guest on-display]

I'm deliberating about taking things serious with this girl who put out on the first date

[cyberPUNK]

I'm deliberating about taking things serious with this girl who put out on the first date

judging from the few facts i know, sounds like a bad idea.

[freecat]

i started skateboarding yesterday, i've always wanted to be able to skate, but i didn't really had the balls for it when i was younger (i wasn't much of an intrepid kid). wish me luck haha.

[cyberPUNK]

i hope you have health insurance.

edit: nevermind you're in france.

[DaBestSpoona]

judging from the few facts i know, sounds like a bad idea.

When he means taking it serious, he means he is seriously looking to put out on the second date

[High Monika]

i started skateboarding yesterday, i've always wanted to be able to skate, but i didn't really had the balls for it when i was younger (i wasn't much of an intrepid kid). wish me luck haha.

The real reason to start when you're young is that your bones are made of rubber, your joints stretch like chewing gum, and you recover from injuries in less than a day.

Prepare to be sore and good luck.

EDIT: I should add that I started at 15, haven't skated in 5 years, and STILL get the urge to skate like a crackhead fiending. Nothing else like it.

[haptronic]

I'm deliberating about taking things serious with this girl who put out on the first date

is it because she wanted to have sex with you and did?

that doesn't seem to be anything to worry about, or do you expect girls you date to play games with you in order to not get called a slut.

if guys have this double standard everyone loses, i mean we all want girls who are into sex, so why punish them by being weird about it when they are.

[cyberPUNK]

well a large majority of women who do have sex with you on the first date are better for short-term relationships than long-term. not saying there aren't any keepers out there, but they are definitely the outlier.

[Mr Waffles]

my theory on that is that it will not take as much for her to do the same thing with someone else.

[AstroWolf]

So, let me get this right, you wanted to fuck her, got to at the first chance you could, and now you are laming it up about getting what you want?

No hate, but if a chick wants to fuck, and so do you, second guessing yourself about what she might or might not be doing with other dudes is lame. Are you that normal, are you every dude?

This logic escapes me. Sure a slut is a slut, but a good chick is a good chick. No matter when you get laid.

[cyberPUNK]

-ohwrd

[bouwnt]

a true Lady removes her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. the rest of the time

she can be as dignified and modest as her persona requires.

time lapse irrelevant; cause i don't fuck with a watch on

[Billy.Barbados]

A girl that sleeps with you on the first date isn't much to worry about, if she's a freak you two need to go to the clinic before going raw though.

[automaton]

no... but one of my year tens came to school the day after the last one going 'miss my dad likes you, like really likes you'

when I read this I imagined the kid's voice to sound like this guy's:

[Caps Lock]

I just got a jetblue buddy pass as a gift from a friend for my birthday. But I have no clue where to go. Any suggestions?

[epitaph220]

go to the Caribbean (if the ticket allows)

[Caps Lock]

It does, except you have to go Orlando and sometimes there is only one flight perday. If you cant catch you connecting flight; you have to pay moar moniez for the second leg of the flight.

[High Monika]

a true Lady removes her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. the rest of the time

she can be as dignified and modest as her persona requires.

time lapse irrelevant; cause i don't fuck with a watch on

Your phrasing is, as usual, magical.