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my thoughts

1. (you know this) Don't let her in on the fact that you want this girl too. It'll ruin her chase and your chances.

2. How liberal-minded is the kbeezy? If she's gonna be the "open" type, get her fucked up, take them out, and at some point (jokingly) suggest that they should make out in front of you....at which point your girl will take the cue and move further. Best part is if both of them are fucked up enough your girl can always play it off as not knowing what's going on and still possibly have a chance the next round.

If she's the conservative kbeezy type, your girl's gotta work harder at moving from "close friends" watchin movies late at night to cuddling to uh, more...but your gf will have to keep things as undefined as possible so that the other girl doesn't snap back to her rigid upbringing and push you all away. If she's like that though you're gonna have a real hard time moving to 3way. (i've seen it done both ways. first option is easier if possible. second is time consuming, but may be more fun for your girl).

3. Making the move yourself is a bad idea.

4. Having your gf come onto the girl directly is a bad idea. Needs to be left up to the undefined, the "experimenting" for a straight girl to normally be up for it. You gotta make it so that the idea is imposed on them both, which you can help with.

5. Watching a lesbian porno or a purely lesbian movie is a bad idea. I've seen this attempted. Does not work.

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Isn't their anyway to do this without spiking a drink or taking ecstasy? (always a semi-straight edge concept)

I agree with the whole invite over for film watching idea. Just make sure they get drunk as hell, so your girl can get hella real with the other. Maybe in their drunken state, your girl can bring out vibrators and shit to get things goingggggggggggggg. Lesbo pr0n might not work.

But yeah, agreeing with the questions asked to the above post; knowing whether she's more libral or conservative would help. The only Korean girls I know are conservative. :(

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Is the aim for you and your girl to game the target k-beezy together or for her to do it on her own?

I think the best recipe is to be a cool couple (both having applied a bit of game on her in advance so that there is some attraction directed toward you and your girl from K-beezy, albeit safe and non-threatening).

From there, once you have established that you are "cool" and can be trusted just invite her out to some nightclub environment. When in the club, add a little bit of liquor, tell the girls how hot they look/dance together and encourage the girls make out or have your girl try to build some sexual tension/anticipation with target K-beezy. At some point, you must jump back in and throw a bit of heat at the target so that the attraction is directed toward you and your girl as a couple and not just at your girl individually (much greater likelihood of trifecta if she is attracted to you as well). Marinate in that environment for a bit and then extract to your crib for a "late night bite to eat ". Bottle of wine and make it happen.

You can pull this off no doubt.

Buena Suerte,

db

p.s. small tip for building the "three of us" concept = create some silly game for your time in the club (take turns trying to get strangers to do something or search for particular types of people like its a checklist or something). something that only the three of you are in on. helps to establish the three of you as a unit thereby fostering end goal.

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Excellent thread! I posted this same thing back in the DJRaj dating advice thread a few weeks ago.

Me and the Mrs and looking to pick up some cutie biddies for three some action as well. I'm also looking for any and all pointers. (Preferably from someone who's successfully done it and not simply suggesting booze + rom com).

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dismal living the life. i'm jealous but happy for you :rolleyes:

not speaking from experience, but i think you're gonna have to sit back n let your girl do all the leg work. if you jump in, your girl might feel cheated n get jealous. she was the one who brought it up so let her get the satisfaction of bringing her home. you'll benefit either way

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Is the aim for you and your girl to game the target k-beezy together or for her to do it on her own?

I think the best recipe is to be a cool couple (both having applied a bit of game on her in advance so that there is some attraction directed toward you and your girl from K-beezy, albeit safe and non-threatening).

From there, once you have established that you are "cool" and can be trusted just invite her out to some nightclub environment. When in the club, add a little bit of liquor, tell the girls how hot they look/dance together and encourage the girls make out or have your girl try to build some sexual tension/anticipation with target K-beezy. At some point, you must jump back in and throw a bit of heat at the target so that the attraction is directed toward you and your girl as a couple and not just at your girl individually (much greater likelihood of trifecta if she is attracted to you as well). Marinate in that environment for a bit and then extract to your crib for a "late night bite to eat ". Bottle of wine and make it happen.

You can pull this off no doubt.

Buena Suerte,

db

p.s. small tip for building the "three of us" concept = create some silly game for your time in the club (take turns trying to get strangers to do something or search for particular types of people like its a checklist or something). something that only the three of you are in on. helps to establish the three of you as a unit thereby fostering end goal.

If I was allowed to participate actively, it'd be in the bag. Me, one girl who likes me, one girl who is her friend and trusts her, I've done this scenario before and it's hard to fail if a good amount of alcohol is involved and you're on for the night. Plus K-beezies generally like me if I don't act too scary.

My girlfriend though, I think she is just trying to get some sort of satisfaction out of gaming a girl and seeing she will respond, I haven't even asked about my girlfriend's planned lesbian sex repertoire.

If any plainclothes God wants to step up and take the mic and expound on my dilemma, that'd be helpful. I think my girl is going back out tomorrow night to look this girl up again, try her out one more time. She's agreed not to give up and I'm cheering her on, telling her to do her best. haha.

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If your down to get down with them I think there is a easy way to see if it's possible.

Ask the chick over for drinks. As things go on over the course of the night move to the couch. Slowly start playing with your girls hair, neck, breasts. Slow enough that it's noticble buy not shocking. If you get to your girls tits, and home girl is still there it's on.

Slow and steady and your in.

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I'm not allowed in on the take right now man, that is the huge underlying problem that only I am seeing. I might be invited along or they might show up at the house together to play with me later, but for right now, I'm a backstage guy.

If I were allowed to play:

I'd get my girl to invite girl over for wine, I'd cook up some dismalfuture® faux nouvelle cuisine, make sure the wine consumption exceeds a bottle per person over the course of just an hour or two, propose the voluntary viagra for each of us and break out the nice (diptyque?) candles and Weleda Wild Rose massage oil out, get some arms and legs done, and the wine and Viagra would probably do the rest on this beezy.

total bill:

faux nouvelle cuisine: $50

dyptique candle: $65

Weleda Wild Rose oil: $10

Viagras off the black market: about $20

Wine: $50-100

considering it'd be a 3-person date and it'd be completely worth it even if it were $1000, it's a pretty good value...

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also to add, while my beezy is out on her date with her girlfriend, I am gonna call up the Domino's Hawaiian pizza and gin 3-way girl from like 3 years ago, I haven't seen her in awhile and the last time we met up, she brought along a nice looking beezy; she's pretty good about bringing along friends and breaking under pressure (mine)...

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  • 3 weeks later...

What a thread. The threesome concept won't work? You could keep yourself mostly out of it, without revealing too much of your own game to your girl. When shit's about to really go down, pause it and tell em they haven't even kissed yet, get it cooking from there.

Of course that wouldn't be your girl doing it herself though.

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  • 11 months later...
also to add, while my beezy is out on her date with her girlfriend, I am gonna call up the Domino's Hawaiian pizza and gin 3-way girl from like 3 years ago, I haven't seen her in awhile and the last time we met up, she brought along a nice looking beezy; she's pretty good about bringing along friends and breaking under pressure (mine)...

Good move playa

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