superconfessional

[nf one]

i am secretly so distraught about that day i was caught in torrential rain in my tfdbc like a week after i got them

they are still lovely but i dont think they will reach the illustrious, glorious, homoerotic sheen that i wanted them to

some very rude rains in nyc, no manners at all

[ExileOnMainSt]

Well it is definitely true that the dealership price will ALWAYS be the worst price for repairs and its certainly true that it depends where the dent is. If its into a sidebar or something you could be fucked. The only kicker with the lease thing is... if they inspect it and find work done that wasn't by them, they might try to fuck you with a fine when you go in after your lease is up. Check your warranty information. Or if you try to buy out your lease early and switch to a different car, they could screw you on the re-value.

Having said that: depending on just how much cheaper the guy you know is, its probably worth it.

I currently work for Infiniti. And things like this change by manufacturer and by dealership.

that is my only problem, everyone i talk to says that if the dealership finds out that I'm getting the repairs done by someone else they will bend me over

the chips and the small indent are absolutley nothing, I'm just pissed off because this ghetto ass hotel had fucking big metal poles instead of parking curbs, what the fuck is that about!?!?! -> only in Detroit, I guess..

[kunk75]

unless it goes on a car fax report, they don't inspect that closely. if the scratches are bigger than a half dollar in size, they charge you a bit. if you take another car from them upon conclusion of the lease they are more lenient. i've had 3 vw and had all the work done by someone else.

that is my only problem, everyone i talk to says that if the dealership finds out that I'm getting the repairs done by someone else they will bend me over

the chips and the small indent are absolutley nothing, I'm just pissed off because this ghetto ass hotel had fucking big metal poles instead of parking curbs, what the fuck is that about!?!?! -> only in Detroit, I guess..

[newaesthetic]

I hung out with my ex twice last week. First day she told me that the new guy is "alright", told me some things she probably shouldn't have about me, etc etc. He calls at 12:45am on his break, she tells him she's alone with me downtown, hanging out. I guess understandably, he's a bit pissed. We hung out on Friday, found out that while they've only been together a month... she's engaged. Fuck.

Best part is it's supposed to be hush-hush, only a select few know and she wants it to stay that way. He's also barring her from seeing me. Heh.

[kunk75]

^stay away from women who get engaged to their rebound after a month. that won't end well.

[Biff15]

^stay away from women who get engaged to their rebound after a month. that won't end well.

truth.

matter of fact, the chances of success for people getting engaged to anyone (rebound or not) after a month is one in a million...

[kunk75]

^yeah, and why is she hanging out with you if she's engaged to a new guy who she thinks is alright.

[azn8oi]

HMKahowfB_E

[newaesthetic]

^yeah, and why is she hanging out with you if she's engaged to a new guy who she thinks is alright.

This will reek of bitchassness, but this is what she told me (I'll throw in my thoughts): She misses me because we get along so well, feels like we can be good friends (despite never actually really being friends prior to the relationship), thinks I'm "too good of a guy" to not have around (I asked, logically then, if I'm too good... what is he?), blah blah blah.

I should also point out while he knew she was seeing me Friday, he figured it was just for a little while for our job hunt. She lied to him and spent a couple hours with me, even lying about it when he called her on his break ("newaes, can you stay quiet for a few minutes?"). Back when we were good, she would mention the idea of marriage pretty often, and when I'd point out that nothing is for sure, she would say it didn't matter, it was what she wanted. When she told me about the engagement, I said it's good to know things are for sure, and she said "oh, I don't know if it's for sure, who knows. You and I just can't work right now".

Oh, he also does not know we slept together last month in Chicago. Infact all he knows is we broke up in June, nothing about how we were seeing each other up until about a week before they got together.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. On a positive note; I did get my long-overdue birthday present from her: $250 gift cert. Word.

[kunk75]

^how old is she? sounds like you may be better off without her in any capacity.

[bernt]

Weird shit. I went through that exact same situation. The only difference was that her relationship crumbled after being engaged when she told the dudes friends that he couldn't keep it up. He got pissed so he went and cheated on her with his ex and now they are together. My ex came crawling back to me thinking I would take her back.

Fuck that shit.

[landho]

A "secret" engagement is a red flag.

[maxlin]

Getting engaged after a month is a red flag.

[mpcec]

I'm feeling really in over my head this semester. One of my anthropology classes is really difficult for me, all the concepts are completely new and I didn't take the prerequisite course. I think I might have overestimated my abilities. The readings are so dense and hard for me to get through and I just don't have the time to read through them multiple times. I have a paper due this monday that I've sat down 3 times to try and start but just can't wrap my head around it. I want to meet with my professor and explain how I feel but I'm intimidated, and I'm nervous that if I drop the class I might get a bad reputation in the department (I dropped another anthro class last semester and anthro is my major.)

I'm just really worried and don't know what to do. I'm mad at myself for taking on more than I can chew and potentially wasting my money and time. On top of my school work I'm getting way too many hours at work that I can't have covered and the boss has been out of the country for 3 weeks so I can't talk to him.

I think if I withdrew I would be able to concentrate on my other classes a lot more, but It just upsets me that I'm feeling this way. I want to be able to do this work but I want to do it right and not do a sloppy job on it. Really could use some advice from people in similar situations. Have you guys ever dropped classes that are required from your major to retake them later on? Should I worry about what the professor thinks or should I just worry about doing this on my own time/ and in my own way so that I learn the material proper...

I feel so rushed... I want a lesser load so I can enjoy simple pleasures while still doing school work and having a job, but I will almost feel like a failure on some level for not keeping up with my course load.

[newaesthetic]

mpcec - I dropped two courses last year that are for my major so that I could focus on them later. I didn't want to do a half-assed job and would rather give them my full attention when it's better for me. I'd say go and talk to a professor; tell them the truth. You are having a hard time with the one class and want to be able to give it your full attention at a better time. They will understand, especially if you are working a lot. The only thing you didn't mention; are there other courses afterwards that need this one as a pre-req? I got lucky, both of mine were solo classes.

landho - the "secret" is because her dad is a big scary serb who works above this guy at toyota. her mom knows and her close friends know, but they don't want to drop it on her dad yet. probably because he'll point out she's bat-shit.

[landho]

landho - the "secret" is because her dad is a big scary serb who works above this guy at toyota. her mom knows and her close friends know, but they don't want to drop it on her dad yet. probably because he'll point out she's bat-shit.

I knew a girl who had a "secret" engagement once. I made out with her on the couch while her "fiancé" was napping on her bed. It was such a secret that I didn't even know they were going out. I found out years later when he and I worked together at an office. She was also some kind of new-age Christian something or other who was saving herself for marriage. She ended up getting knocked up and is now raising her kid solo. The last time I saw her was a few years ago. We were several years removed from school and her kid just turned one. We watched In the Mood for Love and afterward she railed against Wong Kar-wai for not considering things from the woman's perspective. (She was working at the Center for Women's and Gender Studies at the university at the time.) I kicked her out of my apartment.

She was, of course, certifiably bat-shit insane, so you can see my bias for girls who insist on "secret" engagements.

[amo te]

ok here's another:

a few years back i was at a graduation party and it was pretty wack. the only good thing about the party was that the beer was flowing like wine and the dj was my friend's hilarious dad who was ridiculously stoned.

anyways, my friend had been nailing this chick all summer and she was pretty fine, but a total slut who was siq for diq. well they wanted to hook up but couldn't go inside the house because it was "off limits."

they decided their best bet would be to walk down the driveway and find a car that wasn't locked up and go fuck in it. they finally found a car and they started going at it. things were getting hot and heavy and this chick tells my friend to throw it in her starfish. well he does and they start going at it hard. my friend suddenly feels something on his stomach and because he's so hammered/horny, he doesn't really think about it.

well they finish up and he opens the door which makes the dome light go on. he looks down and sees that she SHIT ALL OVER HIS STOMACH. like, all over it. she is still bent over and totally oblivious so he decides that he will wipe the shit off his stomach with a sock and not tell her about it because although she did take a dump on him, he still wanted to be able to hit it and the summer was young ..

the next day they talk on AIM and she was telling him about how she just had sooo much fun with him and whatever. then she tells him that she especially had fun in the car, and that it would have been more fun if it didn't "smell like dog shit in there."

i don't know if that really fits in this thread, but i was the only person he told as i was the first person he found at the party that he could confide in. he looked like he saw a ghost .. i just had to tell somebody so now you guys know.

[ProfMonnitoff]

my university is cwg central

holy fuck

so many cwgs

but so many of them are hot

should i keep stylin or stoop down??????

[Leonard Leroy]

Stoop down while stylin, damn, not that hard of a predicament what's wrong with you

[ProfMonnitoff]

Stoop down while stylin, damn, not that hard of a predicament what's wrong with you

i just invented a post to put you in your place but i refrained from posting it out of kindness

stylin4lyfe

[Leonard Leroy]

oooh, intriguing, PM pls

[unklesteve]

Just found the kryptonite to my suddenly stellar love life:

Two girls on the rag at the same time is fucking seriously brutal.

[mpcec]

mpcec - I dropped two courses last year that are for my major so that I could focus on them later. I didn't want to do a half-assed job and would rather give them my full attention when it's better for me. I'd say go and talk to a professor; tell them the truth. You are having a hard time with the one class and want to be able to give it your full attention at a better time. They will understand, especially if you are working a lot. The only thing you didn't mention; are there other courses afterwards that need this one as a pre-req? I got lucky, both of mine were solo classes.

Yeah, it's luckily a solo class. I'm almost positive I'm gonna withdraw but I'm setting up a meeting with the professor before I make a decision.

[fallen angels]

i will be going to rural countryside parts of mainland china for work in the next month, to evaluate poor places that need new schools. i'm excited about it, but also a little bit nervous. i don't look forward to eating food that will destroy my stomach, not getting to shower for multiple days in a row, and using their toilets aka holes in the dirt. however, i do look forward to observing the people and simple life in the countryside. wont be "fun", but should be a good experience...

[cabl3]

im sure it'll be an eye opening experience that will expose you to the kind of perspective that only real life situations like that can offer.

make the best of it.

[amo te]

Just found the kryptonite to my suddenly stellar love life:

Two girls on the rag at the same time is fucking seriously brutal.

hmm, since their periods are in sync they may actually be spending alot of time together. they could be talking about you RIGHT NOW. ABORT!

[kunk75]

mrs. kunk gave me the ok to reveal her. pardon my gay face.

[bouwnt]

she looks like willow from buffy the vampire slayer

you looks like ur in the love :o

[Tyro1]

that is a nice photo kunk, but why dont you give that sultry look everytime you waywt?

[kunk75]

cause only weddings have free booze.