Asking a girl out.

[weirdnjfan1]

I know that if I post this here, I'm gonna get a lot of smart ass remarks and comments, but I really don't care at this point.

I'm playing with the idea of asking a girl to hang out just as friends, maybe possibly more down the line. However, I don't want to feel like I'm coming on a little too strong.

This is mainly the idea basically what I'm gonna ask her the next time I see her.

"You want to hang out sometime and maybe get a cup of coffee or something?"

Is this alright or am I coming on a little strong?

Again, I know that there's gonna be a lot of smart ass comments and other trash like stuff coming, but at this point, I really don't give a damn.

[HAPPYASALAMB]

I know that if I post this here, I'm gonna get a lot of smart ass remarks and comments, but I really don't care at this point.

I'm playing with the idea of asking a girl to hang out just as friends, maybe possibly more down the line. However, I don't want to feel like I'm coming on a little too strong.

This is mainly the idea basically what I'm gonna ask her the next time I see her.

"You want to hang out sometime and maybe get a cup of coffee or something?"

Is this alright or am I coming on a little strong?

Again, I know that there's gonna be a lot of smart ass comments and other trash like stuff coming, but at this point, I really don't give a damn.

naw dude thats fine, but like asking her to dinner would be a little strong. at coffee its not really a date, its just hanging out and talking. so that would be fine IMO

[Mr Calvin Oscar]

here is your first inevitable neg rep

and yes thats fine

[bruised]

if you don't give a damn, juust ask then.

[6ixes&7evens]

im always coming on strong

[Thorns]

I prefer asking if for drinks instead of coffee... drinks/bar = date... coffee= friendzoning yourself.

[cyberPUNK]

just try putting date rape in her drink. saves you the trouble of talking.

[gfunkdocta]

you embarrassin' us..

[landho]

Literally an exchange I had a few minutes ago on Facebook with an acquaintance of mine from high school (now getting her doctorate at a school here):

her: You live in New York now? That's crazy. I'm up in West Harlem. We should go drinking.

me: I am a bit of a teetotaler (never been drunk) but an extrovert, so I can come along and entertain you and then sleazily try to take advantage of you, which is basically the same as if I had gotten drunk.

[Quik]

just try putting date rape in her drink. saves you the trouble of talking.

You mean put roofies in her drink, or you want him to rape her in her drink.

Its one or the other.

[bangbangbang]

Don't do the dreaded coffee/hang out. Anything but that. Go for samosas, check out sex toys, walk some puppies at the spca, watch some porn, but do not ask her out for coffee.

Cocktails are ok tho. Pints if she's super casual.

[6ixes&7evens]

just tell the bitch u think shes sexy and u wanna fuck. just be straightforward bitches appreciate that shit. this works 1/25 times and u dont have to go through the dating/small talk

[fallen angels]

sounds like you're thinking too much for something that is so simple.

"You want to hang out sometime and maybe get a cup of coffee or something?"

kind of boring, but if you do decide to ask her to coffee, there are smoother, less-awkward ways to say it

[sawn-off chef]

just drop trou' that always worked for me.

edit: i'm not being sarcastic, i'm very serious here it does work.

[Mr Waffles]

i just cough and throw my car keys on the ground then ask if they like Audi.

most of the time, the middle school ones ask for rides. the older ones just plain cant handle their liquor / wine coolers

[原料かば]

just drop trou' that always worked for me.

edit: i'm not being sarcastic, i'm very serious here it does work.

its called the 'naked man'

works 1/3 of the time

[weirdnjfan1]

naw dude thats fine, but like asking her to dinner would be a little strong. at coffee its not really a date, its just hanging out and talking. so that would be fine IMO

I prefer asking if for drinks instead of coffee... drinks/bar = date... coffee= friendzoning yourself.

Thorns:

She's not 21 yet, so it's a little weird. Also most of the place around school are 18 enter/21 drink, so if worse comes to worse, I could always suggest that.

HAPPYASALAMB:

Thanks loads man, I just wanted to check to make sure that it wasn't going to be awkward or if it was the proper thing to do.

[b.e-n]

just ask her if she wants to hang out. if that doesnt work out just fuck another girl. if you really feel for her, then i dont know

[landho]

Also, I have found that walking up to a girl and discreetly humping her from behind or the side usually works pretty well.

[Mr Waffles]

i save dry humping for the second date

[weirdnjfan1]

Also, I have found that walking up to a girl and discreetly humping her from behind or the side usually works pretty well.

I've thought about this with other girls, but there is some kind of just friends now and possibly something later kind of thing there. But if it doesn't work out I could try that on someone else.

[6ixes&7evens]

throw money in their faces bitches cant resist that shit

[b.e-n]

[Guest Phrost]

sounds like you need ass asap. if you live in jersey, there are some skeezy places in the city to get your dick wet. du i know always talks about cockslap friendly russian brighton beach whores

if you insist in asking girl out, cup of coffee is fine but turn the charm up. none of this

"You want to hang out sometime and maybe get a cup of coffee or something?"

read it out loud. do you see what you did wrong. step yo game up. if you need practice, remember this - fat girls need lovin too

[bangbangbang]

Thorns:

She's not 21 yet, so it's a little weird. Also most of the place around school are 18 enter/21 drink, so if worse comes to worse, I could always suggest that.

srsly tho,

How well do you know this female? Hobbies, tastes, etc? Could work around that.

[landho]

i save dry humping for the second date

I've thought about this with other girls, but there is some kind of just friends now and possibly something later kind of thing there. But if it doesn't work out I could try that on someone else.

My friend ran it once on some random broad on the dance floor of a club, and he ended up dry-humping her in front of God, us, and everyone for literally twenty minutes. It was absurd but also kind of awesome.

[原料かば]

[b.e-n]

I think that it's natural for some, less for others. some of my friends have are really good at this, and manage to do it naturally, without even knowing. id rather not spend days waiting and waiting though. good luck, just ask her if she wants to hang out.

[原料かば]

^^ true, think about it too much and you'll syke yourself out

[cyberPUNK]

i'm guessing this guy's a virgin