super long distance? yay or nay

[spacemanvt]

need sufu opinions. recently moved away from my gf to a big new city with lots of opps for pussy play. We haven't been dating very long but she is crazy about me, i like her alot as well (probably not an even amt though). We are going to try to make it work and see each other alot but 1000 miles is a bitch.

if it works out long distance, i guess we would move back together at some point. perhaps the city where i left her or down here.

I just have a feeling it isnt going to work out.I am selfish cunt.

Any suggestions, experiences, etc.

:confused:

[Fookums]

I'm in a long distance relationship right now also, but it's definitely not for everyone, and a bitch to keep up.

If you can, and you really do care for the girl, by all means go for it, but if not, there's a lot of a hassle and hardship that goes along with it.

[Thorns]

Been there. Done that. How long are you guys going to be apart? Permanently? If so its sort of a waste.

[midnight]

If you are going to move back to the same city in the same amount of time that you have been dating, then stay in the relationship if you really like her. If you're never gonna move back to the same area, dump her.

EX:

you've been dating for 3 months----------->you are away from her for 2 months----------------->stay together

you've been dating for 3 months----------->you are away for 4+ months---------------------------->dump

If you stay together you guys are gonna need some quality webcams for video chatting if you know what im sayyyyyin

[spacemanvt]

we have been dating like 1.5 months. I have never done the long distance thing before but i envision one of us moving to the other city at some point if it worked out long enough. this sucks.

[spacemanvt]

webcamz would be sweet. gotta bring that up at some point. i was already trying to get nudes.

[ericdw]

need sufu opinions. recently moved away from my gf to a big new city with lots of opps for pussy play.

if that's how your thinking about your situation - lots of opps for pussy - then i think you answered your own question...

[Egpt]

we have been dating like 1.5 months.

i giggled. this thread doesn't even make sense when this fact is presented

[midnight]

nudes then breakup

[gramps]

Don't bother. At some point other people are going to be fucked and when they are it should be done with impunity.

[FunkyFrenchy]

Man, this is so hard to do...

But sex phone can be great... Never done it but the scene in american pie made me laugh.

[spacemanvt]

nudes then breakup

+ rep... 10 chars

[sidneylo]

I just got through a one and a half year long distance relationship from NYC to SF. I suppose it's rough but it depends on what type of life you live. I'm always busy as hell and needing a lot of creative space and it works for me.

[Tob]

It can work, but 1.5 months is a shallow base.

Try it out, if you dont mind calling her 7 times a week, it means the love is there and its worth it.

But if you are already thinking of 'pussy opps', ask yourself what you really want, like ericdw said before.

[LeatherSeatBelt]

i learned in psych class the key to a good relationship is proximity and connectiveness. i mean its possible to work it out, buuuuuuut i dont think itll ever be as good as meeting with someone close by

[Fuuma]

I suggest going to a fedex office and asking how much it is to fedex a blowjob because you're planning to receive some long-distance ones, if they tell you it's impossible to fedex that shit then I guess you're fucked because you aren't going to be and it's not going to work out.

Note: if you had some real commitment to that girl and had been with her awhile and build something together it would be entirely different. In your situation the best would be to just go for other people and see what happens if you are ever reunited.

[who8mahrice]

Did you know this girl a long time before you started dating? Cause 1.5 months doesn't seem worth trying a 1000+ mile relationship.

[sidneylo]

I suggest going to a fedex office and asking how much it is to fedex a blowjob because you're planning to receive some long-distance ones, if they tell you it's impossible to fedex that shit then I guess you're fucked because you aren't going to be and it's not going to work out.

Note: if you had some real commitment to that girl and had been with her awhile and build something together it would be entirely different. In your situation the best would be to just go for other people and see what happens if you are ever reunited.

I came to that conclusion a few nights ago. You have to introduce me to some halfie french-asian girls while I'm in town next month. You can dance wiff me too.

OYEA

[DüM]

Fuuma, the tracking # is 1Z056475899 , but it's wet and there's some tip-nibbling in there though so be careful opening it. Don't use a knife.

[blm14]

Threesome with her hottest girlfriend, then don't call for three weeks. Go visit her and bring your hottest guy friend and see how she reacts. If she's down, she's a keeper. Else, kix to da curb!

[mellowbonsai]

except for one co-worker, ive never seen long distance work out

connection has to be really strong and should visit often to make anything work

[jordanelias]

like mellowbonsai and others are saying, the connection has to be really strong

get a reliable internet service provider -- you don't want a dial-up modem or any of that shit

[stuartSan]

I don't know dude. 1.5 months is like the one night stand of exclusive relationships. I wouldn't bother trying 1000 miles with that.

[Fabulaz]

Fuuma, the tracking # is 1Z056475899 , but it's wet and there's some tip-nibbling in there though so be careful opening it. Don't use a knife.

Template for a quality post.

[rome1]

tried it myself, and have seen others try it as well........... all end in failure.

[mrpenguin354]

Only 1.5 months? I went out with my ex for a year, went to school, and struggled for two years. In your case, I just don't think it's worth it. There's so much shit you haven't found out about each other, and finding it out via phone/email/smoke signals is going to be rough.

Back to moping...

[dismalfuture]

Fidelity is some white people shit

[evisu 2000]

i just got this... it's latin for 'love concquers all'

keep your eyes open and your ear to the ground dun.

[mellowbonsai]

Fidelity is some white people shit

[BBC]

I don't know dude. 1.5 months is like the one night stand of exclusive relationships. I wouldn't bother trying 1000 miles with that.

Hahaha.

Spaceman, that's only like 6 weeks dude, time to get realistic.