Lost superfriend

[Guest DUM]

Me and my friends have completely lost contact with another friend that used to hang out with us daily. We haven't seen him since graduation. We've been to his house and the only one at the door is his dogs, though we think we see someone look through a window sometimes. He signs on AIM sometimes but doesnt respond and he hasnt been on his Myspace since 8/30/06.

Yesterday we got his number from someone..but since I didnt have a paper I memorized it (hope I got it right) and we all put it in our phones and called him. For the first person he picked up and hung up and for the next few he didnt even answer. I sent him some texts and then we checked his house one more time. No answer..we think we saw someone in the window.

So I sent him a message saying something like "we saw you in the window, fucker"

To our knowledge no one we know has seen him. Sooooo should we give up?

[Servo2000]

Sounds like a total wackjob.

On second though, maybe you and your friends are a bunch of assholes.

[Kodak]

Personally if someone dips and dodges me everytime I time I try to speak to them or make contact any kind with them I would just give up. Then again maybe he is having some personal issues he is trying to work through. I guess all you can do is wait and see if he contacts any of you or your friends.

[mike lowrey]

I think that if you really consider the dude your friend, as in the sense that if he has some problems or issues you'd try to help him, then I'd try to contact him. if you cant reach him on the phone try leaving him a note of some sort explaining that you want to get in touch with him or maybe help him if hes in trouble.

but then again if you wrote him something like "we see you fucker" you might not up to that?

[youngluc]

yea, the whole "we see you fucker" isn't probably the way to go about it. i'd say try leaving him a note just explaining that you're worried considering how he just disappeared and what not, maybe he'll understand and at least explain himself.

[Guest DUM]

Yeah ok, I'll try a note.

[viv1984viv]

I act abit erratic with friends sometimes, and am a bit hot-cold. Leaving a note like that is just gonna make him think "fuck em", if I was him it would make me more stubborn. Just leave your number and a note asking if he wants to meet for coffee or something, breif and non-committal.

[beefcake]

more on topic; where the hell is keal? i miss keal. come back keal!

keal.

[Guest]

He's found cooler friends and/or you and your friends embaress him. Or he is sexually attracted to one or all of you, and is hiding because he can't hide his boner from y'all.

[C0C0]

sounds like a disorder to me...does he have family have u spoken with them if so?

[so-so]

He's banging your sister.

[masuerte]

I miss keska and I_miss_lilly

[Guest DUM]

He's banging your sister.

My sister is 10...I hope not.

[red]

My sister is 10.

and the plot thickens.......

[keska]

woops

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[keska]

what the hell is this new TEAM thing? you bandwagon geeks

[goldengloves]

Maybe he's hiding a body in there....

On a more serious note though, I would try something like a note or trying to contact a member of his family but if still no response I would let it go. Kinda weird he would just fall off like that and then totally dodge you. People get weird when tuff shit is going down though, I know first hand.

[mike lowrey]

DUM, any updates on the weirdo?

[Larry Bird]

has the guy ever had depression problems or any kind of mental illness?

[superdupersang]

people fall out of friendships just as easily as they are made

this might just be my thing but i keep no contact with people from school, uni, work, and its not planned but our relationship just seems to disappear

[paradigm_shift]

people fall out of friendships just as easily as they are made

this might just be my thing but i keep no contact with people from school, uni, work, and its not planned but our relationship just seems to disappear

I'm the same way in both friendships and relationships. Is it possible to outgrow people? I wonder.

[johnnay]

I'm the same way in both friendships and relationships. Is it possible to outgrow people? I wonder.

its very possible to outgrow people.

it sucks when you outgrow people, but you realize youre kinda alone still.

very hard to come back to old group.

[Guest DUM]

Still nothing, I'll try a letter and if that doesn't work I give up.

I've talked to some of his even closer friends, and they say they haven't had any contact either. One person actually had his dad answer the door, but he said "He's not here, I'll tell him you came by"

While we weren't really looking for it, he showed no signs of anything weird. He seemed normal to me all the time. Maybe something happened.

[Egpt]

wtf?dude hasn't said nothing back for all this time?

[buffalocloud7]

sounds a little twilight zone-ish to me...good luck, but if someones that determined to disappear they usually do

[Guest StuckOnStupid]

this is called being a grown-up. as you get older, your homeboys are not the be all end all of your existance. paying the rent, your family, your partner, yr kids...those things come to the front. thats how it is.

that being said...ive been the guy yer talking about. just leave him alone, if he wants to talk to you, he will eventually.

[Guest StuckOnStupid]

or maybe he just met some better looking, more interesting, more intelligent people to kick it with. it happens.

[prima]

or maybe he just met some better looking, more interesting, more intelligent people to kick it with. it happens.

you just had to add this part to try to seem cool again didn't you?

[cureOne]

wtf?dude hasn't said nothing back for all this time?

Why did you bump this thread, when i already bumped the follow up to it like 30 minutes before you

[Egpt]

cuz i'm evul