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skeet,i had similar situation. they start givin the cold shoulders. if you care for her just let her vent and shell work her way out,but to prove you guys can still might be friends dont let her spiral out of control and dont let your self go either.give the girl space and keep that seperation,but dont stray too far thiking that you did a total disconnect.its weird,situation is like they want a total disconnect,but not really. you have to get to that even plain again,but not too aggresive.. slowly but surely build that friendship. cause deep down,you guys want the best situation for both and didnt mean to do any harm.

well since I'm usually the one who does the blocking out, I'd say the best way to go about this is give her space, as mentioned above. now, this could definitely mean blocking her out entirely, and if that's what it takes to make you feel better then so be it. however, I must warn you that when you do that, people change like crazy in the time of your absence and it could be a huge mindfuck if you ever go back to that person (which is happening to me right now).

don't spiral out of control with drugs, but definitely let yourself have a good time. I did a lot of acid and ecstasy this summer, made some awesome new friends (our friendship isn't predicated solely upon drug use either, which is great), and had a memorable/not-memorable time, ya dig? you're in a rut, but I know you're trying desperately to occupy your time to get your mind off this person -- keep working at it! your friends can't be with you 24/7 so find other stuff to fill in the gaps... sometimes having a girl around helps as long as it doesn't develop into a serious relationship (keep in mind it's HARD not to get attached in this case since you're essentially trying to replace something you don't have anymore)

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when i was 16, i went to my cousin's wedding down in washington, d.c.

after some unceremonious drinking frenzy, i proceeded to go for a walk,

happening upon an old homeless woman sleeping in what seemed to be some

sort of oblong shipping bin.

i proceeded the roll the bin down the street and, as she was screaming at me, trying

to claw her way out, i pushed it down a hill and into a little ditch.

i dont know if she survived.

i went to mcdonald's and had a mcflurry right afterwards. oreo.

Those are great.

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i will take burger king cream pies yesss...

they currently have a butterfinger cream pie, tie in with the simpsons...so good.

used to have an oreo one, but that's gone... dulce de leche cheesecake is a smash.

kfc has a strawberry shortcake cream pie slice, really good too.

popeyes' mardi gras cheesecake deserves an honorable mention.

i dislike fast food, for the most part, but these prepacked desserts are delicious- theyre all manufactured by the same company, too, for all these different franchises.

spooners have long been gone... they should bring them back, i remember having one when i was a wee babe.

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Technics? Try about 400 a piece, used.

Mixer doesn't mean shit, nor do the turntables (as long as they're direct drive you'll be fine)... It's all about taste, your record collection and your ability to know when to beatmatch and when not to (or attempt to). It doesn't take a few fucking weeks, especially if you're mixing ed banger electro shit, which is pretty hard to beat match without a grabber or anything.

Start here- djforums.com, but don't pay any attention to the music subforums- tasteless motherfuckers there, don't get too caught up on gear, it really doesn't matter.

word, thanks for the heads up. i plan to pursue it when i have time. i dont forsee myself becoming the most prolific turntabilist within a few weeks. its more of a summer thing when i have a lot of free time and i can work on perfecting some sort of meager skill i might have at it. and it wouldnt just stop after the summer, i'd like to go on an continue to do it as a hobby, maybe get decent enough to play houses or shows, i dunno, but i don't expect to be Kavinsky or sebastiAn within a 8 week summer...

but regardless, thank you keagan. its the most non confrontational post we've had in some time.

do you live in LA? cuz if you go to Stacks Vinyl and talk to the dudes about learning how to dj, i think they still hold DJ 101 (learn about scratching, etc) every other tuesday. Real cool guys. i went to one and learned a basic scratch but stopped going cuz it really wasnt me....im never got musically inclined on those career tests.

no i dont live in LA. i live in rural CT where turntables are about as uncommon as the 10 black kids at my school.

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i think i just watched liberation1940s hit on some ugly red-haired irish girl on a bench in front of baruch college on park avenue.

was that you lib? if not, you have a twin, right down to the hat and the being thinner than bee dicks.

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hope nobody passed away... if that's not the case, then we're in the same boat. feels like I was close to someone who doesn't even exist anymore

no no, no one passed away. my friend is going back to Ottawa for school. It sucks cause im pretty sure ive fallen for her and i can't just be friends with her anymore so i had to just cut her out of my life because i couldn't do it anymore.

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Just out of spite,

I confess I've ruined three lives

Now don't sleep so tight

Because I didn't care till I found out that one of them was mine.

Night after night time time after time.

Done too much of both types of w(h)ining.

Still wasn't right fight after fight

Till Get out of my life get away from me get away from that gun

No it's not a joke it's cards on the table time

Yes I could have phoned

I could have spoke

But how to break the news without beaking your heart

Being dead don't hurt,

No only dieing

Cards on the table time,

Sometimes it's right to say goodnight.

Always searching for paradise,

I'll admit that I'm good as blind

Darling I confess yes I've ruined three lives

And didn't care till I found out that one of them was mine.

I confess

Our love seems like a punishment

And I confess,

If it's all the same to you I'll stay indifferent

I confess I confess I confess

I confess I confess I confess.

No-one wins and there's no denying,

Don't pretend like you don't know why,

Just a little word here a little push there Darling

I confess look I confess that I don't really care

I confess I confess I confess.

Out like a light,

Another boy who's given up trying,

Blinded by fright,

He scream my life's not open,

Please get out,

I know I'm shouting,

I like to shout.

It's not a joke it's cards on the table time

It's not a joke it's cards on the table time

I could have phoned

I could have spoke

But how to break the news without beaking your heart

Being dead don't hurt,

No only dieing

Cards on the table time,

Sometimes it's right to say goodnight.

Always searching for paradise,

I'll admit that I'm good as blind

Darling I confess yes I've ruined three lives

And didn't care till I found out that one of them was mine.

I confess

I deserve some type of punishment

I confess

If it's all the same to you I'll stay indifferent

I confess I confess I confess

I confess I confess I confess

I confess I confess I confess

I confess I confess I confess

I confess I confess I confess

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