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Phyziks

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  1. Honestly Mharcl, it's only human nature to be bothered by this. Of course we all wish the girl that we love has never seen a dick other than yours, but this will never happen, especially if you're both at least in your late teens. It really doesn't matter who she has been with because she is with you now, and that's all that should matter. I think this quote was already posted in here, but it, along with what RandR has told you, should outline exactly how these things are:

    " You may not be her first, her last, or her only. she loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there. " - Bob Marley

    RandR, you're extremely insightful and you're 100% correct. I understand it from her point of view, and it can't be easy for her to tell her friend this. The shittiest part is how she is the one that hooked us up, and now it's causing these problems. Also, I hope everything works out for you man.

  2. Okay, so I've been friends with this girl for 3 years now. We always had a little thing between us, but we were never single at the same time so nothing ever happened. Around Christmas of last year, she ends up hooking me up with one of her friends, and I dated her for around 4-5 months before calling it quits.

    About 1 week after this, my friend and I start hooking up. We've been sleeping together and spending tons of time together, but we're not in an official relationship. At first, we both agreed it was just sex and that our friendship comes first. Now, we both admitted to having much deeper feelings and not just the physical. I would honestly say we're doing everything that people in a normal relationship do, but we just haven't made it official.

    The reason why, is because I dated her friend. She is afraid to lose this friend and the mutual friends they share. Do you think this is a legitimate reason, or is she holding off on being in a relationship for a different reason and is using this as an excuse to keep fucking?

    Advise.

  3. it seems that a "real job" is one of the most unhealthy thing

    and that being even aside the fact that it really feels (and is) prostitution

    I've never eaten so bad, started smoking cigarettes here and there, drinking coffee and alcohol by the liter, doing drugs (at work and outside)

    or it might also be part of just working my ass out, then being 1hr in public transportation to come back home all alone

    I hear this. My full-time job was killing me for awhile. I started smoking, drinking too much coffee, stopped going to the gym because of lack of energy, my diet went to shit, and I drink like a beast every weekend just because I can. After the 6 month mark I started getting used to the routine and I'm back to normal now, thankfully.

  4. You're getting yourself smack-dab into an ideal situation. You have sex with her but without the boyfriend shit attached because she is seeing someone. You also have the option of seeing other girls while staying sexually involved with her. Awesomeness. My advice would be to let her initiate all of the sexual encounters, and play it cool.

  5. It's actually something that can really work to your advantage. Bringing a friend that ends up approving of you is a huge game changer. Shit's like the equivalent of finally being able to do the dragon punch motion consistently.

    I feel like you are enough of a ladies man where this isn't going to faze you really. The text you sent was good, because it establishes your position as not being someone she can shit all over which you'll call perfume. Now you just gotta be your normal self around the girl and her friend, and frankly in my experience the friend is usually told to peace out at some point before you take the girl back to your place, you know?

    Have fun man. Don't forget to put a forcefield around your main cannon before firing.

    I disagree with this completely. Doing the dragon punch motion consistently is a game changer, don't devalue it.

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