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  1. so...

    i met this really nice girl, K, about a month ago, and everything was going really good for the both of us. this all changed when she found out i had a one-night-stand with a girl, F, from my school before i met her.

    granted, K suspected i might have had something in the past with F and asked me about it. but i lied. because it probably was better for her, right? but she found out, and now K's freaking out about how 'everything isnt perfect/precious' anymore and how she just doesn't feel as comfortable as she used to be around me.

    i'm not sure what to do, but K held off doing her overseas university applications for me (crazy thing to do, i know), and is now bent on completing them, and to 'set her priorities straight'

    so, help me sufu, is there anything i can do about this?

    Let it go. You and this girl have no commitment or anything so what are you trying to save? Sounds like you are both better off just chalking it up to experience and moving along.

    PS. Any girl who will suspend major life plans like that for a guy she's known for a month is probably nuttier than you realize.

  2. Today was my first day in the gym since before x-mas, I hadn't intended to take so much time off but it was the holidays, then the blizzzard, then New Years and then I caught the worst cold of my adult life. So bummed at how much strength and stamina I lost, it's like my body cannibalized itself fighting off that cold. I feel like it's gonna take 2 months to get back what i lost in 3 weeks. waaambulance.gif

  3. but the sister is a CWG with big tittays

    also, her brother is my main weed connect.

    but like i said, tits man

    The world is FULL of CWG with big jugs.

    The world is also FULL of weed connects.

    Which one is in shorter supply where you are? Act accordingly. Profit.

  4. I feel the same way about Strider. I know they are a shady company to say the least, i know they are totally too much for my EDC needs, I know they are way overpriced. But I still want a PT like crazy, there's just something sexy about that thing. It's like the hot slutty girl you know you shouldn't mess with but you can't help flirting with her.

    I was using the sandpaper/mousepad method on my Mini-Grip with no problems for a while, but I was given a Sharpmaker for x-mas and it's amazing how easy to use that thing is. Unless you are obsessed with learning freehand I highly recommend it for a typical EDC'er.

  5. I take Jack3d. I like it a lot but I'm building a tolerance as well, also getting the insomnia effects of it. It been working great for me though. I haven't tried any other pre-workout supp so I can't really compare but I would recommend it. I would like to try White Flood sometime.

    I tried White Flood for a few weeks and I enjoyed the tingling sensation that I got from the beta-alanine, it definitely got me excited to workout, but it really affected my cardio workouts negatively. I would end up having to quit early or lower my resistance on the stationary bike a great deal in order to get thru workouts that were not a problem before I started taking it. I always do cardio before I lift, so you may have better results if you are just hitting the weights, but it didn't work out for me. I went back to taking a caffeine pill about an hour before I hit the gym and my stamina went back to where it was pretty quickly.

  6. I definitely miss the days when people were roasted for posting some lazy shit. No way a guy like that xrevengex dudes fits would have been tolerated around here 4-5 years ago. A lot of those anonymous denim WDYWT posters make me long for the days of Constant Struggle, at least he was making some effort even if he wasn't making good choices. These dudes just buy whatever they see everyone else buying and think that makes it all good. It's become just like the sneaker board WDTWT threads, except instead of SB's and Jordans getting you rep it's Gitman and Woolrich.

  7. Giants brawl:

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  8. I told you I could smell the crazy on this one. Best thing you can do now is be really consistent with saying no when she asks to hang out (don't be wishy washy either) and making sure not to backslide when your lonely/horny/high or whatever. No matter how good the sex is, if you want her to leave you alone you have to leave her alone. If she's as nuts as she seems she'll find a new target soon enough.

    I think I should've listened to DaBestSpoona and arem. This bitch is crazy. She acted like and actually said she doesn't want a relationship either, but every day that goes by she tries to worm her way into my life more and more and wants to be all couple-ish. She's seen me out with other girls, I told her I didn't want a relationship, and at this point I'm ignoring all of the offers she extends to hang out, but she doesn't stop insisting that we hang out, ALL THE TIME. I feel like I have a monkey on my back that can't take a hint.
  9. I wouldn't bother contacting her until you had something going on that A) will seem interesting to her and B) her saying yes/no doesn't matter to you. Don't ask her out to lunch or coffee or whatever. Let her know about a party you'll be at or and event you're going to, then go and if she shows up great and have fun, and if she doesn't great and have fun with other people.

  10. Solix - I sweat very heavily when I work out too, switching to something like Nike Dri-Fit or adidas Climacool will really make a difference. Most people don't really perspire enough to see the difference between a regular cotton T and a synthetic, but there's a huge difference IMO. Definitely worth buying one and trying it out. The weird thing is that I can't wear them casually, because they make me sweat even when I'm not exerting myself.

  11. If she wanted to hook up with you, she would have. Girls generally don't mess around once they've decided to take things to that level. She enjoys your attention, but she obviously doesn't want you that way, at least not now. The solution is to stop giving her your attention. Don't be mean or hostile, just ignore her, no texts, no chats, no posting on her Facebook or whatever you kids are doing. This will make her wonder if she did something wrong, or if she somehow became unattractive to you, thus making YOU more attractive to her. This opens the door to the possibility of you having a sexual relationship, but what will DEFINITELY happen is that someone who isn’t interested in you will no longer be wasting your time.

  12. ^^ Make sure she is on birth control and tell her you don't want to have kids. As a safeguard, pull out and wear a condom just to be safe.

    So I've been seeing this girl for a while, and were starting to get to the point where things are serious. We had sex for like a minute before she stopped me because she has cold feet. I guess the deal is this girl has only had sex with one other guy and she doesn't want to have sex with me unless I go out with her. Problem is that I am on a roll right now and even though this girl is attractive and very cool, I feel like playing the field. Unfortunately if I play the field word will get around and my time with this girl is essentially over. Is it worth gambling my relationship with this girl just to fool around more? My chances of getting caught are about 50/50, so im on the fence. If it means anything, this is also the first girl ive been with that doesn't want to give head. Thats almost a dealbreaker for me.

    Don't be a dick and mess with someone's feelings just to fuck her a couple of times if that's all you want to do. There's plenty of girls out there who will fuck you for a free drink and some jokes, it's cruel to deliberately manipulate someone inexperienced, and you'll (probably) screw them up about men for a while in the process. If you're on such a studly casanova like run, keep it moving.

  13. That's a horrible story Tyler, sorry to hear it. I think the saddest thing about suicide is that the people commiting it never realize what pain they cause the people they leave behind. Such a selfish thing to do...

    mousepad + sandpaper gives you a convex edge.

    You say it like this is a bad thing? From everything I've read a convex edge is easier to maintain, stays sharp longer, and is better suited for the kinds of EDC stuff we do (as opposed to a hunting or kitchen knife).

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