howl

helmut lang white acetate satin waistband trousers:

think the split hem was an addition by the previous owner but its nice and will be kept.

schad: are these stills all from the same film?

some days good some days bad

^ its all about peace, love and giving now huh

i know i am an advocate of huge-as trousers (via style inspiration thread) and this could be construed as an inherent bias. its just a matter of situation though that it would have been nicer to see this with a pair of classic-fitting trousers (on the same boots). would definitely lend a nice line and balance to the eye given the coat's size and heavy contrast between the white and burgundy and black.

BIG TROUSERS

i know he ain't busy on here anymore, but baizilla seems to fit the bill. anybody know what he actually does

I think you're over thinking it. I duuno mayne, maybe your expectations are to big or fuck know's what. Maybe loosen up a little and have some fun. I slammed so many Aussie chicks I find it hard to believe your having trouble.

very cosigned.

 

-Not sure what you're "looking for", but def overthinking things.

- In reality, girls want the exact same things: to meet a decent person, to get casually fucked, to go have fun, to go on dates, to explore if it's more, etc.

-fashion girl or something (who tend to be the most obnoxious women ever btw).

okayokay: true, fashion girls might be that way but it goes to the root of their interest in it. if you mean fashion girl to actually be trendy girls, then probably. if you have a superficial investment into a subject matter, it sometimes makes you ignorant to how ignorant you are which breeds the quality of being obnoxious. but if you're someone who has a fervent interest in something, i doubt you would be but rather, of worthy opinion/humble/open-minded/curious. besides, we can say the same would apply to dudes as well.

maybe i should loosen up (i do). maybe i do have big expectations, but i don't see it as a problem. but it would be a concern if i compromised my character by being less of what i am, just to rack up some casual flings. the trouble is not 'slamming', cause trouble only comes about if its an aim and you're not realising that aim. the trouble is relating which i guess might me be myself or down to not meeting the right women. leave it at this and i'll be out there and experience things as they come.

Howl arent u fanboi of punkrock & hc? Try datin some of those weirdos. I personally don't, but in yr case better than nothin tho, righ?

think its more than a hint. i had a discussion with a friend and what i said was that women probably have lofty visions of a dude they want to be with (e.g when girls fap over gosling or whoever) but in reality, they settle for far less - they settle for someone with a self-esteem that is on par with or around their own levels. anyone that goes beyond that comfort level is intimidating and unless she be that different kind of woman who's confident/strong, she probably compromising on her relationship. so sometimes, i wonder whether killah fits are actually conducive to situations involving women cause shit might make you look deadly, but you probably dead to women.

Start doing drugs. Ok jk. Sounds like you ok with talking with people on a day to day basis, so you just gotta up your presence. You gotta make your intentions known if you want them to text back. Leave on a 'we're getting drinks soon, I'll text you' kinda line Where you going to uni btw?

yeah i'm usually up front about setting up so i can see her or something. textings all fine and that, but shes flaked like twice. forget this tho, im just going to relax and not stress up.

i go to curtin though that might change. where are you (if you're still studying)?

when you meet a friend, who with their other friends that you don't know and they go outta' their way to not notice you or act like you're not there. so you stand there awkwardly with an outstretched hand waiting for a handshake but they don't reciprocate until they're forced to 'realise' you are there.

Find a girl who wants to do E with you.

 

But if you are looking for deep meaningful shit you are probably creeping bitches out. 

1. dont do drugs

2. probably. but why bitches gotta be creeped out y'know

get tinder (0)

like herpsky said; tinder hard out here for a POC

join a goddamn athletics club. fuckin rock climbing works wonders and has a 50/50 distribution of both genders. 

 

otherwise, flag football works for fit CWGs.

gotta' rule out extra-curricular activities. i've already got athletic commitments, mixed in with school - its tough. but lets say with the limited amount of girls i meet though, i ain't doing shit to make 'em think "i'm gonna' give this dude a chance". and on my part, sometimes i feel its because i approach it in too enthusiastic of a manner or they can't relate cause i'm too serious. this girl i met some weeks ago. we text and i feel like it gets on fine but i'll ask if she wants to meet up, and she'll say yeah but sometime down the way at the last min she'll come up with some excuse. happened a few times and i'm thinking, can't be this way (keep feeling like a desperate loser).

yeah.

i hate the clubs, besides them girls be looking for something i'm not. like public spots; library, campus, while i'm waiting for the train. maybe i've not met enough yet i don't know. like where else man

no luck with women. chat with them, get their numbers but they never seem keen enough to follow-up. feel like i'm the only keen party and it's tiring. what am i doing wrong

*not keen on just banging doe / just need someone on that same wavelength deep-shit kinda thing

will save up for those ann sandals

i'd be down. pm me.

how conceited people are with themselves and their abilities. i don't go out much (i'd prefer to be holed up, working on something) but last night, after a dinner (a close friends birthday dinner with some of her friends) we went to a bar. and it's a bar where the sort of people who would like to believe themselves as people who have a creative output or would believe themselves to be tastemakers, congregate. people who are cool, as they would believe. 

as much as people would say they don't seek attention, they do. people seek connection and understanding, that is attention in itself. so they project themselves a certain way in hopes other like-minded people will come to associate themselves with them. now, its not that i am against this undefinable but instinctive or innate understanding of being cool but i am very much against how much this 'act' is just a play to fill out their lacking character make-up. i conversate with some people and sometimes, what you see is not necessarily what you get. they act a certain way, this bristling confidence in their demeanour but you find out that they don't have the substance to back this up. an example that could be brought up was this girl i spoke to who was doing a fashion course but from talking to her, it was disheartening to hear of how detached she was from her subject. how can you want to participate in something and not want to or try be totally immersed in it?

so, the point is how unbearable i find it that people aren't willing towards devotion and hard work. second, is how willing and quick they are to accept something to be of good produce. whether it be art or ideas or anything. and yet, that these people who have nothing to hold to hold a candle to with their lives (which is not to say i am different, i am too, a nothing for now) are so arrogant and rude and ignorant. i guess the point of it all is just that people (some) aren't honest with themselves about their own abilities and the abilities of others which is a shame because the honesty that you hold yourself to is the driver of how you will improve. but then again, do people want to improve? do they have in them, any ambition?

i'm sorry. this is something i thought deep and hard about as girls were gyrating with one another around me on the dance floor.

Supreme is a funny thing. For what it stands for or for what it's foundations are, the majority of those who buy into what it is are the furthest things away. Not a kick at Supreme in anyway, I have a very soft spot for them.

sundance. be honest, you live for the negs