Mr HaGa

been together for 10 years and married for 8 of them, and it's all falling apart around us now. I don't know what's going to happen, if we can fix it or even want to anymore, and the day-to-day insecurity is killing me.

"I would never want to belong to any club that would have someone like me for a member"

I just got promoted to a position with some more money and much more pressure and responsibility. When I was offered the job the first thing I thought was "y'all are idiots for wanting to put me in charge and thinking I'm gonna be good at all this shit."

toss salads

certified copy

okonomi's was the trouble with harry.

And no it wasn't xenox101. I remember that, that went really fuckin far, but so hilarious...

Discovered that the text I have was posted on a website/forum that requires paid subscription to view. Don't know which one though. Don't think there's a way to find out...? Really wanted to know what else they posted there, and under what username, but I might have to give up.

Can't really post it here because other people are involved and their identities need to be protected.

done that. found some stuff they posted on a couple of special interest forums.

I know there's more because of an exerpt of a text I have (got emailed to me by accident in a reply all clusterfuck) they published online or posted on a forum in the last year. It's pretty explicit and disturbing, and they probably would not have used their regular internet handle for that. So I don't have the website, don't have the username, just the piece of text. Tried googling it but no hits.....

I might be getting a little too obsessed over this...

Tell me how? I got their fb and twitter and youtube and shit, but i know there's much more...

Who has done this? What are some good techniques? Need some help digging up dirt on someone who popped up a couple of times on the periphery of my life and is giving me cause for concern.

Not trying to do anything illegal, just want to find out whatever they ever willingly posted/published anywhere on the interwebs.

but she would have to be one HELLUVA fuck.

She wasssss..... Goddaaaaamn

They doin ok in the 4th though...

I appreciate the time and thought you put into that. I will think long and hard on this... i realize i probably come off like some asshole, trying to get away with cheating on his wife and not giving a shit about his kids. It's not like that though. I have a great marriage. We're good together and for each other. We've been together 10 years and married 8 of them. I've never cheated or even considered it as an actual possibility - fantasized about it, of course, but who doesn't? Until now. I'm really into this woman, and i'm having a really hard time dealing with it. We work together, sometimes late, just the two of us in the building. We got semi drunk that one time after a late project and talked about stuff that made us both blush and sheepishly smiley when we saw each other the next day, but that's all the acknowledgement we gave it and we got back to work. Same thing a couple weeks later. I could be reading her wrong but i feel like she's into me as well and it would be so fucking easy to give in... I haven't yet, and of course i don't want to fucking risk my kids and a relationship of 10 years for one good fuck, because i know the guilt will eat at me if anything would ever happen, but when i'm around this person i'm not thinking about any of that.

This ain't no ugly. Redhead + Body like christina hendricks but superfit and could probably kick my ass.

Best advice yet nonetheless. Will fap...

^damn. but you're right, obviously...

what nature do you expect advice regarding this situation to have

I really don't know my dude... I realize this is a dating thread as opposed to a marriage counseling thread and sufu is a younger crowd that might not be able to relate to this at all, but I needed to get it off my chest and I don't have any friends I'd want to trust with this...

Has anyone here ever cheated/had an affair where it didn't end badly? Been married over 8 years, with kids, never cheated, but I'm so fucking tempted lately - definitely feeling that 7 year itch...

About a month ago I had a drink after a late night with someone from work and had a great time. Again a couple of weeks later. She's in a relationship too, lives with someone, but unhappily and she fucks other people. She's supersmashingfucking hot in a non-obvious way. We get along great, though maybe just friend-zoning - after 8 years I now suck at reading those kind of signals.

I realize it's a horrible idea since we work closely together and she's got kind of a fuck-it-all self destructive streak, but fuuuuuuu... Is there any way I can pull this off without it ending in disaster? We're having drinks this weekend...

online restock of the snakeskin hoodie

I generally hate vests, even ones from mf, but this is great.

I generally hate vests, especially denim ones from mf, but tvshooter is great

this thread sucks so much

<3

sup daddy

arabic hoodies went fucking fast too... Missed out on everything.

the usual. think i look stupid in this one.

Bumping this. Need to swag out my boy...