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  1. So I finally did it, said my peace, and walked out on her.

    I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"

    I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."

    Now I just got home, and early in the night, we fucked, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----

    This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."

    didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to fucking suck, but such is life.

    serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.

    what the fuck were you trying to accomplish here? i've been following your misadventures for a while and it's gotten to the point where the only discernable goal i can see behind your actions is 'to be able to tell people on sufu that i cut off all contact with her no matter what'

    as i read your posts i find myself wishing desperately that this is an elaborate series of troll posts. then i wonder what this girl did to deserve falling so hard for such a complete shithead.

    i'm sure there are worse guys a girl could fall for but since i have the advantage of being able to communicate (and you seem willing to listen in your owned maligned way) i'll say this: please please PLEASE get your fucking head on straight before you share yourself with another hapless girl again.

  2. I think you're a sociopath

    me2

    Like you said what I really need is some time for myself, and self introspection. Ideally a "break" but I really don't want a break for multiple reasons...thing is, I feel like if a temporary break is a time when I go out and get laid, why wouldn't she? Not so much because she needs it want its whatever, but feels hurt and feels like I may not come back.

    this is fucked up. after wrestling with (and claiming to have gotten over) the issue of her sexual experience being greater than yours you now say that part of the reason you don't want to separate from her is cuz she might have sex with other people

  3. "you can't say it's dumb cause you might end up doing the same thing if facing a similar situation" is kinda borderline dumb itself.

    ...that's not what i'm saying. telling him getting a tattoo was a dumb reaction is like saying wounded soldiers who cry 'mommy' are bitches, and don't they know how dumb they will look when they're in saving private ryan??

  4. i think it's shitty for people to say 'dude that was dumb you shouldn't have got tattoos of the names.'

    if you haven't been in the same situation you can't presume you would have acted more rationally, nevermind with thought to girls you'd be hooking up with in the future, cause i'm sure that's the first thing on everybody's mind when they find out their significant other secretly had two abortions.

  5. i saw this on a girl's favorite qotes thing on facebook:

    " You may not be her first, her last, or her only. she loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there. " - Bob Marley

  6. that said synthetic shit is no bueno for finding one's self in my experience

    i think this is a dumb thing to say...obviously ur limitting the experience yuo have with something if you tell yourself its fake cuz its manmade, synthetic whatever.

  7. saw this yesterday

    somebody should make animated gifs of when they show joseph gordon-levitt in the van with his eyes closed but hands waving over his head so it looks like he's waving his hands to music :o

  8. I've been listening to Bright Eyes a lot lately. I feel like I'm back in high school. I kind of like it. It reminds of when I first got my car and would just take the deserted back roads to school because I had never driven on the highway. Things were so much simpler then and I admit, I was just full of a lot of hope because I thought college would make everything awesome. Well it hasn't, but any time I listen to specific records like Spoon - "Girls Can Tell" or Broken Social Scene - "You Forgot It In People" it just makes me remember those drives and even though I thought high school was really terrible, retrospectively there are things that sort of stand out as really enjoyable. I know there's a psychological term for this where it's good if you look back on past situations and see them in a positive rather than negative light.

    Here's a quote from The Walkmen that kind of puts it into words:

    "There's a memory calling, calling way too loud and way to strong. Twisting all the bad things into good. I'm a lucky guy now, but I'll never know until its gone."

    heh i liked reading this post i read it and got to the quote at the end and smiled when i read it then realised your sig said SMILE

  9. yea i have a couple of fact mag ones, and only two of the hotflush ones, gotta get back on that. Seclusiasis is starkey's radio show, he plays whatever he wants and its GOOOD

    meant to say thanks for the link, i downloaded a couple shows they were good

    tracks i really liked:

    WObXqR7VpQ4

    ip2lJfUyaoQ

    guess they dont belong in this thread but oh well!

  10. pick it up the morning after you sleep with her sister/roommate/housemate/mom (5)
    have you not learned anything? DONT WAIT.

    if you are, at least PRETEND that you didn't.

    when she finally gets back to you, act surprised like "oh yeah!, what about it?"

    let's put it this way, she is either:

    a) on her own forum, crying to her bitches about what she should with this *great guy*, contemplating

    B) moved on to other guy(s)

    if it's a), showing her you don't care will make her think SHE is the one losing YOU, although everyone here knows the opposite is true.

    if it's B), she was using you the whole time. you MUST fuck her mom/sister/best friend in return

    your first post was dumb but it's like ehh whatever everybody loves to come in the djrajio thread and be like ohoho i am so silly here is sum advice get muney fuck bitches haheheheehohoh

    second post was just really fucking dumb!

    diggin american_hearts' posts the past few pages. the thing that made this thread good was that djrajio gave advice on the attitude you should have in a situation, instead of succumbing to people's demands for play-by-play advice on how to deal with their lady troubles.

  11. i wanna get a lamy safari, can anyone comment on how they are for daily use?

    to clarify: i tried out my dad's pelikan that uses 4001 ink and it was really nice but i had finished a cartridge after writing about 4 pages of notes. if i get a lamy as my main pen will cartridges last a while or will i just be burning through them/better of with a ball point pen or something

  12. i've never played an fps on the computer, isn't the movement awkward without a stick? since you can only really move in 8 directions

    nah mouse blows analog stick away for aiming and makes it a lot easier to control movement and strafing. cant even compare the two

  13. Dear Helen,…

    yoyoyo wait a sec did you write an anonymous letter to the profesor of the microbiology class AND a student in it? no hate though i like reading posts like these, it's why this thread has its own charm to meunique from superconfessional

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