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  1. herpsky, by reading what you wrote and not being to convey tone through just text, it sounds as though you are purposely just being difficult - firstly you say they might not be able to accommodate for one extra, but then u contradict by saying you'll bring a friend.

    In my few experiences with "friend date" - this is a perfect chance to shine. If you play it cool, be nice and inject some humour, the friend will appreciate it and highly approve of you and bam your in. I guess this is a case of patience is a virtue as you may or may not get laid this date, but if this one goes well then you're in.

    As for me, I haven't had a date in a while (perhaps this takes away from the validity of anything i've said above lol) but i'm struggling to meet girls in sydney. Where they at?

  2. I guess i'll just go the route where I don't pay too much particular attention to her. In a normal situation i would've just asked her "hey give me your number and we'll have lunch at uni sometime" - but in this situation i'd probably just be like every other guy on the team?

  3. okay. i played on the men's university basketball team, and we went on a tournament with the girls team. theres a cute eurasian on the girls team and we all became good friends over the course of the week long trip.

    the problem is, because there are so many guys she would get attention from several of the other guys on the team it's not the same dynamic as if i met her in a regular social situation - is this a situation where i shouldn't bother?

  4. stay away from medic b's - after goin thru med school i can wholheartedly say they are all fucked in the head in some way or another. the only genuine ones are generally unattractive or in serious relationships if they are hot.

    What im saying is a huge generalisation of course, yours mite be the one but if she isnt batshit crazy then it will come a point where her career is gonna take priority over all else. The hot ones are the worst culprits, esp if she is 18 and in her first year (im assuming you are in europe, if you are in the US then the girl is full of shit unless its a pre-med program, which isnt med school anyway).

    Nah i'm from Sydney - they have undergrad med here. I actually don't know much about her since i met her at a club and we just danced and had only a brief chat - she could be crazy. I don't even remember how she looks like either.

    There's some good advice in this thread, because i messaged her, and no reply the first time so i gave her a call and was just casual and confident - and i said to her if she was heading out to x club, then she might see me there. Last night she msgd me saying "hey! im here with my friends - and you?" but i ended up staying home because i'm heading out to a ball tourny but i told her i left town a night earlier.

    COnfidence and patience are key things I've learned to apply - it doesn't make you reek of creepiness/desperation/sleeziness.

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