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bahnahnahs

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  1. i had a one night stand with this girl that i barely know, just bumping into her about 3 times on train rides. nothing else.

    It happened on xmas eve, she texted me on xmas eve, wishing me merry xmas, i wished her back and asked her how is she spending her xmas.

    She said shes alone coz she just broke up and all her friends are not free to be with her.

    I offered to accompany her after my party, she said ok, so yah after my party i picked her up and brought over my place.

    bit of this and that blah blah blah, than we fucked.

    Next day, x mas, we woke up about 4pm, went for our first meal and did a bit of shopping together. and went home seperately, i didnt do anything nice to her, like send her back, give her hugs or kisses. just held her hand,

    i didnt want to send her wrong ideas of me actually wanting to be in a relationship with her or something. so i did none of those bullshit, as i barely know her.

    Over the next few days she still initiate calling me etc etc..

    but recently i realised i actually like being in her company.

    Then i tried calling her out for dinner once, on a weekday, she said shes tired and wants to go home straight after work.

    The next time i tried was also a weekday, i called her @ noon, she said she isnt sure, but i told her to let me know before 5 so i can make my plans if she cant make it.So when it was around 5ish and i didnt get a reply from her yet, I texted her to ask if shes ok for dinner later , she said she cant, busy at work.

    She came home she called me to apologise saying there was a last minute summon by boss.

    Next time i tried calling her out was for a weekend, no go too, already had plans before i came in, some mini vacation on some new hotel that was in soft opening. 2 weekends in a row. Which i know its something true and not some made up story.

    So all in all, i asked her out 4 times , and 4 times no. And no counteroffers from her.

    Since then i stopped calling/texting her. Been a week already, and i also do not get any text/calls from her. so what should i do?

    1) Wait longer.

    2) call her? if yes, when, how?

    3) tell me what.

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