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anyone know what boots the dude in this pic is wearing? i know theyre not apart of the UU collection, but they look nice.

lol did you make an account just to ask?

lol i guess so. not on some sick loverboy shit but ive lurked sufu for a long time but never felt the need to post, i dont even understand half of the threads due to the sufu slangsz. this is the one time that ive been browsing and wanted to post something. so yeah, idc.

thats what im thinking, just ask.

and as far as her interest, like i mentioned we've only had very short periods of time to talk. but that wasnt the problem. i guess i was wondering if asking to chill/for digits may come off too forward since we barely know eachother, resulting as coming off as desperate, simpin, soft etc.

heres the situation, got this girl that im tryna get to know better and whatnot but we only see each other for very short periods of times and during that time theres multiple distractions like other people greeting us etc., shes cool and we go to the same college, im pretty sure i can build something from this.

the problem is that every time we talk the convo resets and little to no progress is made. sounds like we go thru the same stock dialogue (hows school, pass your finals etc). so i cant really read if shes into me and i cant really build the talking up to the point i can bag her number and talk more intimately. all my previous experience tells me that i shouldnt seem overly interested, but it think if i just start talking to her/texting without the proper buildup thats doing just that.

should i acknowledge the problem up front next time i approach her? i.e. "i feel like we always end up talking about the same stuff...blah blah" ask for number and take it from there? is that still too od?