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  1. just because a girl has slept with more guys than you (or girls, if you are straight), doesn't neccesarily make her more experienced than you - she could have only slept with them a few times, and also she could've slept with people who suck in bed.

    in the end sex is only one part of a relationship, and it shouldn't matter that much anyway - if she likes you, then she likes you.

  2. friends for more than 4 years now but haven't kept in touch until recently.

    my bday is coming up and she's planning to drive down 6hrs to see me. she seems excited.

    Friends for more than 4 years is pretty evident that this is friendzone. She knows you, and thus no mystery nor attraction for you.

    Found a girl I really like and the feelings are mutual but I need help overcoming some potential barriers. First off it kills me that this girl has slept with more guys than me, obviously its not a huge deal in the grand scheme of things but she has slept with four more partners than me. Its kinda always in the back of my mind, but I'm assuming this will go away over time correct? Anything assuring? Also, she is constantly contacted by her ex boyfriend that dated her for a year, to which she usually responds. The guys a fuckin nut and a deadbeat so it irks me that he has nothing better to do than to hit her up constantly. Do I give this girl the time of day assuming she'll taper off from her ex completely, or does it seem like a lost cause? She hasn't had another boyfriend since the crazy ex, but I guess some guy was seeing her and stopped because he was afraid she couldn't leave the ex. If it matters at all she broke up with the ex and has expressed that she would never get back together with him, but they still talk. What do?

    Overall, play your own game. forget this other guy. As much as I hate exes (because they are bad news), they are an ex for a reason.

    Also you shouldn't even be talking about the ex with a new girl...

  3. haha. i've driven all other times, but this time she offered and i thought i would take it up so i can examine her ability to handle the gear stick.

    we drove to a spot that i am familiar with and which she has never been to, thus i feel responsible to some degree because being the experienced lead male that i am (0), i should have made sure that i took care of little things like this. That way it would have resulted in a completely positive night.

    but doesn't matter, i guess i just want to be a gentleman about it, and she did insist that i shouldnt pay for it. I'll buy her dinner next time we are out and its all good.

  4. nah, she offered to drive, and she's the one that has copped the fine. I offered to pay half but out of courtesy she told me not to. But i know she's obviously disappointed, and that kind of ruined a great night.

  5. If i go on a date with a girl, who offers to drive, and we forget to pay for parking and receive a $80 fine, how should I handle this? do i offer to pay half?

    My lesson from last night is: always take care of small details as something little like not paying a parking ticket, can ruin a night.

  6. but i heard you have limited choice in who you fuck when you start out, as you may have to fuck men if the director/boss thinks that will make money.

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