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Djrajio Dating Thread/Advice Column

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broke up with the 29 year old. never was going to work given she works crazier hours than me and speaks no english although I speak japanese. left the others girls on autopilot though not interested in them for a long-term relationship. basically stopping out of all my positions. sucks but necessary.

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Help help help! I'm 22 she's 32. How to approach ? (she's a elementary school teacher) I don't wanna ruin it by doing or saying anything stupid we barely know each other so how to approach?

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I've already done that but now I have her on fb. She's does a bit of drugs (MDMA). How to run fb game? I think imma ruin it by over thinkings this it's always been a fantasy of mine >.<

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Don't run a FB game, it leads directly to the friend zone

Get her number if you don't already, then ask her to go out for drinks (call, don't do it via text) then take it from there

No need to overanalyze every detail

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Help help help! I'm 22 she's 32. How to approach ? (she's a elementary school teacher) I don't wanna ruin it by doing or saying anything stupid we barely know each other so how to approach?

step 1 - examine nose to ensure no dicks are in it

step 2 - approach

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idk I hate/think its weird/wtf social networking smh

how like women can see you all of the time in real life. For example walking around campus, but wont say anything to you. Then send you a friend request on facebook so they can lurk your ass.

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when people talk about "fb game" I wish they understood that's all it is. a game. It's not going to go anywhere. just be a fucking human being, and treat the other person like a human being, and talk to them in real life, like, you know, looking at their face and stuff, as if the first thought on your mind was not fucking them in the back of a 1965 shelby cobra GT500KR. how fucking hard is that?

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idk I hate/think its weird/wtf social networking smh

how like women can see you all of the time in real life. For example walking around campus, but wont say anything to you. Then send you a friend request on facebook so they can lurk your ass.

I deny those requests. why am i gonna let someone into the oscar award winning picture that is my life for free? 11 bucks up front, 15 for imax tru 3d.

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I've already done that but now I have her on fb. She's does a bit of drugs (MDMA). How to run fb game? I think imma ruin it by over thinkings this it's always been a fantasy of mine >.<

how did you find out she does molly? seems like an easy angle to work if you do it too...

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why am i gonna let someone into the oscar award winning picture that is my life for free? 11 bucks up front, 15 for imax tru 3d.

Quite possibly the gayest thing ever posted in this thread, despite the generally correct message behind it

Be the prize

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Quite possibly the gayest thing ever posted in this thread, despite the generally correct message behind it

Be the prize

let's add each other on facebook and send each other modern day poetry like "yo brah what's up" or "totally not gay just lookin' to watch the NFL draft, maybe j/o with a fellow bro, wanna cum by (lol brah) with a case of nattys?"

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Theres this mad CWG at school that seems like she used to be ugly as fuck in high school or something but now she got that mean lean 5'11 volleyball player college body. She's the class attention whore and makes sure she sits dead in the middle of a group of guys. Im not sure if she's aware that she actually sits in a cluster of gay guys. she tries to flirt with them and its always a no go.

Wondering if i should try to fucks wit it.

Damn, im a terrible person.

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Anyone encountered being thrown off by weird/unexpected accents? Might be a bigger problem in Asia than in western countries though

I approach this girl once, tapped her on her shoulder, she spun around and started talking in a really off putting alien like accent. I was so shocked I stared blankly at her for about 5 seconds before pussy-ing out and telling her that I got the wrong person, then brisk walked the fuck outta there.

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i asked my sister if she'd still like brad pitt if he spoke singlish. we were both very torn and undecided

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First rule of fight club is you dun talk about fight club lah

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Anyone encountered being thrown off by weird/unexpected accents? Might be a bigger problem in Asia than in western countries though

I approach this girl once, tapped her on her shoulder, she spun around and started talking in a really off putting alien like accent. I was so shocked I stared blankly at her for about 5 seconds before pussy-ing out and telling her that I got the wrong person, then brisk walked the fuck outta there.

i studied in the uk for a few years and got turned off everytime I talked to a chinese girl unless she was like 5th generation or something. shame because some of them were good looking and great girls im sure, but i just had some kind of primal repulsion from their accent. hk girls werent much better

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First rule of fight club is you dun talk about fight club lah

Wah lao eh, simi fight club, country club is it?

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I played cool. But my immature side got a hold of me. A more in depth review in a few more days. Don't wanna jinx myself

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I love the fuck outta my GF, but she's being super distant lately and I find myself not giving a shit and just living. I know girls do this type of shit cause they want the chase, and she is valuable to me, I just don't at all feel the desire to puppy dog it and check in on her and whatever, I don't know what that means...but I got hit on / approached 3 times in the last 4 days and it just seemed to be perfect timing to reinforce that I don't need to play games if that is what this is. Not about to end anything, but not about to bitch out either.

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^ you are heading down an unknown path and i'm scared for you

only because in hindsight, i see myself in that same predicament and it did not end well for me.

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yea, I think I know where it's going...maybe that's why I'm detaching also in a way. Who knows, guess I'll see where it goes. Def not gonna wrap myself up in any drama or anything, I'll put in the effort, but not gonna be all shocked and surprised if we keep drifting. Who knows, we went out and had a good eve, she was super affectionate and whatnot. It's hard not to guess or assume anything, especially cause I'm usually prone to doing that. Just gonna enjoy the time and wherever things go they go.

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yea, I think I know where it's going...maybe that's why I'm detaching also in a way. Who knows, guess I'll see where it goes. Def not gonna wrap myself up in any drama or anything, I'll put in the effort, but not gonna be all shocked and surprised if we keep drifting. Who knows, we went out and had a good eve, she was super affectionate and whatnot. It's hard not to guess or assume anything, especially cause I'm usually prone to doing that. Just gonna enjoy the time and wherever things go they go.

imo she'll end up cheating on you before you actually drift away, that will be the only way she can mentally get over your relationship. pretty shitty but i've seen it happen all the time, including to myself.

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yo that literally just happened to me, yesterday I finally confronted her about it and we're done now. I cared about her way more than she cared about me, she wanted to do her own thing and I was accidentally seeing shit like messages to guys she may or may not have been interested in. I was telling myself the exact same thing, to not take things too seriously and enjoy the time together but I realized I was just lying to myself because I wasn't happy anymore, I wanted her to be as into me as she had once been, funny thing is I'm actually fine because I knew this was coming weeks in advance when shit started going bad. only 6 months but still, it takes a lot for me to get attached to a girl as much as I did.

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