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  1. HPM, did you say anything to the stylist? i'm very cowardly about my hair, so i rarely ask for anything more risky than a trim, but i have had a very bad experience which ended in a conversation with the owner of the salon
     
    if you explain the situation to the owner or manager, you may be able to get a free haircut in the future

  2. jamokes, thanks for the reply, glad there's an exchange going on. this is a subject i'm interested in, though only obliquely. i'll refrain from using hyperbole since it obscures my points a bit. i think you've misinterpreted some of the main parts of my argument, i'll try re-iterate and make it clearer. my position is: yes there is an abundance of different beauty standards (which i personally think should be preserved/continue), but counter to this is an increasing standardisation of a few specific forms which is driven by social circumstances more so than evolutionary ones.

     

    it's been my pleasure! i just wish this community didn't actively discourage discussions of the political variety

     

    i stand by what i said about how difficult it is to draw a line between those circumstances, but in any case, globalization has brought that standardization upon us

    what we must ask ourselves is how and why it's happened

    has globalization enforced that standardization by making it socially advantageous to adopt those standards? has globalization introduced standards to demographics that previously didn't have access to them? if those demographics begin to prefer the global standards to their own, are they doing so because the global standards are associated with authority and advancement? is it impossible for those demographics to develop such preferences for any reason beyond the social advantages?

    why have tomatoes and peppers become integral to so many cuisines? they're native to the new world and have been widely cultivated outside of it for only a few centuries

     

    you cite some models/actors that have a marginal presence among a, to some extent, homogenous majority. it is also somewhat telling that non of these models/actors look anything like their indigenous counter parts of their original hereditary (im making the case assuming they aren't of mixed heritage, they probably are).

     

    what countries are you referring to? i couldn't say what aline's heritage is since she's from the cultural mosaic that is brazil and has released no information about her origins

    karreuche is african and vietnamese, and while africa isn't a country, i suppose the darkest sudanese people come to mind before the fairest somali people in cases like this

    propensities like that relate to the reductiveness i mentioned

     

    back to the korean and asian (eyes, nose, jaw) surgery point: i think you're right in mentioning the point about chasing youth. but it doesn't really hold validity when you really interpret what's going on with the changes in morphological features of their face: no where in any biological history does a person's eye structure change; you don't suddenly grow a freaking bridge in your nose or have your jaw completely restructured (unless you're male) in the course of age change. 

     

    when someone says another person looks younger or older than they really are, their judgement is based on what they associate those features with, and while there must be people who do think someone would look abnormally old if they have nasolabial folds or something like that, it isn't because they've carefully inspected a proper sample of the population and had no choice but to conclude certain features spontaneously occur as we age and are generally restricted to older people 

    whether or not they realize it, people associate proportionately small eyes, large noses, and large jaws with age

    i think the structure of the eyes is relevant mainly because it has an effect on the perceived size of the eyes, and i can think of many reasons why people of any ethnicity would find relatively large and round eyes to be ideal

    even after surgery, most koreans have eyes that are unmistakably those of an asian person

    i've also heard the size and narrowness of the eyes along with the size of the pupils plays a part in determining how trustworthy a person is thought to be, and i now see that reflected by countless illustrations and written descriptions of fictional characters originating from a large variety of cultures and periods

     

    unfortunately, there isn't much to draw conclusions from when trying to determine what the most desired people looked like centuries ago in asia

    illustrations from that era aren't very useful because they're stylized representations of the subjects they depict while cameras were rare and primitive

    according to written descriptions, a small face was and still is seen as ideal for women, and i suppose larger eyes will make the face itself appear to be smaller in comparison

    chinese people have repeatedly described attractive eyes as being clear and bright, so perhaps the larger surface allows more light to be reflected

     

    why is this certain 'idealised' face available to so few koreans, genetically and financially? why do they look so different compared to the undoctored populace? why would their face look so exceptional if they were to be transported 150 years ago, before the contact of the west? I'm not sure there is much more convincing to do when you completely dismiss the social influence of these changes. also, practicing occidentalism does not need to be intentional or even conscious.

    realistically, you could ask the same thing about people of any nationality

    it's what separates the masses from the idols

    however, it's worth nothing that there are plenty of korean idols and fewer commoners who have never had cosmetic surgery yet display many if not all of the characteristics valued by their society

    i believe those are the individuals koreans are trying to emulate when they go under the knife

    being exceptional doesn't necessarily mean being attractive, but i'd wager they would be seen as exceptionally attractive by the majority so long as they still had access to the modern cosmetic products they rely on

    while i believe the results of such operations are usually eerie and too easily recognized as products of surgery, i can understand why other people would overlook the clumsier aspects

    ultimately, i doubt they would be regarded as epitomes of beauty, but i'd be very surprised if they didn't appeal to most of the people they met

     

    sexual dimorphism is a good topic, that can earn a separate discussion. but i'll try make some precursory notes. besides the main things like height and weight ratio between the sexes (also voice and jawline etc.), sexual dimorphism in its exaggerated form is not so prevalent across cultures and across subcultures. taken to its extreme it can be very ugly, think hypermasculinity (body builder, jay cutler) and hyperfeminity (XXXXL boob surgery). again the social specificity must be stressed. most high fashion models of both genders are very androgynous, bodliy composition especially. Paul Boche is a really succesful male runway model, someone likes him. put him on the show jersey shore, and i don't think his looks will be well received. sure, overall as an aggregate, the athletic body is the ideal. but given that there's a strong liking for large range -- thin to overweight, muscly to svelte -- i don't think any scientifically framed argument can account for it.

     

    the social component takes precedence in this argument of attraction and beauty, i'm not sure if i can try convince you any further.

     

    i apologize for giving the impression that i reject the idea of social currents playing any role in preferences because they do play a role, and that's undeniable

    i'll acknowledge the importance of the social component, but i don't see how it takes precedence over everything else

    in the grand scheme of things, it's normally minor and occasionally negligible as it almost always manifests in the form of brief trends which have little if anything to do with fixed features

    your comment regarding paul and jersey shore is a good reminder of that because almost all men can darken their skin, build muscle, and use hair gel

    paul is an attractive man, and i think even the citizens of new jersey's coast would recognize his attractiveness despite the fact that he would look hilariously out of place next to them

    it's easy to say he's androgynous when you see him wearing foundation and feminine clothing, but i encourage you to observe his appearance in an unadulterated state

    his fundamental features are so masculine that i'd expect him to be readily identified as a man even if he were to dress and groom himself like a woman typically would

    in my neck of the woods, few women would care about how brawny he is or isn't because he has broad shoulders, slim hips, tall stature, and a thousand little details pushing his appearance into masculine territory; we all know heterosexual women can appreciate different levels of adiposity and muscularity in men, but how many of them have a liking for proportions which resemble those of men affected by klinefelter syndrome?

    many of the features required or preferred by the industry in question are primarily generated by testosterone, so female models of that variety are certainly less conventionally attractive than their male peers are

     

    "the comments i typically encounter which address how ethnicity impacts attractiveness strike me as reductive at best and resentful at worst"

    am i interpreting this correctly as:

    "some people say certain ethnicities/races are more attractive than others, and this strikes me as reductive and resentful "   ?

    if that is the case, then i agree, and it is NOT what my argument was about in the previous post.

    i'm saying: there are different beauty standards, especially across cultures, subcultures and histories, but, there is a social element that standardises some specific forms of beauty on an aggregate level, and as a result some ethnicities get celebrated and some ethnicities get downplayed.

     

    it's a divisive matter, so it seems like nearly everyone takes a fairly predictable side

    to be honest, i don't know if you take either side

     

    there's a group of people who believe certain characteristics have been glorified mainly due to the dominance of european cultures

    they believe particular proportions and colorations are widely preferred merely because they're associated with caucasian people

    another group insists caucasian people are the inarguable pinnacle of beauty and that any attractive person who isn't caucasian is only attractive because they appear to be caucasian or have caucasian ancestors 

    it's as if most people view ethnicity as some kind of spectrum! alas, extremely complicated concepts such as this have inevitably been vulgarized by the bulk of the populace

     

    you mention hygiene, health and youth. i've suggested before, that these are correct mentions, but they are incredibly trivial and obvious to point out. when i listed 'nice teeth, nice skin' i could of been more exhaustive. 

    you believe science can quantify beauty. this can be done, so long as you keep to the most trivial aspects: symmetry, nice hair, nice skin, nice breath, all limbs in tact. it's clear it can't ever account for the large variance of appreciation for other physiological features. a messy science that can make no predictions or generalisations beyond the trivial is a science like astrology.

    less obvious is what exactly signifies health or youth and what exactly makes skin or hair nice

     

    if anything, it's a field of established sciences, and while the legitimacy of psychology and sociology as sciences has been questioned by many people, comparing it to astrology is absolutely absurd

    you can't attribute such specific patterns to the forer effect

     

     

    funny note on the computer mediated beauty correction (which, by the way is an algorithm, as in, a set of instructions written by a subjective human being). me and a few friends thought it would be good sport to go into one of them japanese photo booths (purika?). the experience of getting the photos taken was all fun and games, but when the printed results came out we said "wtf??". the computer enforced this 'eye enlargement' on everyones eyes. i'm aware these pics are supposed to be exaggerated and fun, but the result was more disturbing than cute. ... i could not compute.. science please help me..

     

    all technology available to us is ultimately at the mercy of people, but i don't see that as a weakness unless the technology fails meet its objectives

    what do you think of the examples? do you think the software succeeded in making the faces more attractive? do you think most people would say it succeeded?

    the software employed by those booths is designed to compliment a few specific styles, so the effects of its stylization can be exceptionally unsettling and amusing when the subjects aren't a part of the usual audience

     

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    also a book recc, that i'm sure you'd very much like: 'pricing beauty' by ashley mears. not entirely related to what we're discussing, but it does touch upon it. she makes a really good typology of some subsets of the modelling industry. the one i remember most was the 'high fashion editorial' models -- how they are not conventional looking, how they push the boundries a bit (think, julia nobis). this was compared to the glamour/mainstream models (kate upton).

     

    i just read the first chapter, and now i'm hooked! what you mentioned made me wonder if it would just be a book of echoes, but i now see why you recommended it

  3. my mother enrolled in a dance class that madonna happened to be in when both of them were quite young
    she never tried to befriend her because she seemed odd and aloof, but she later became her fan
     
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    her suit was designed by jean paul gaultier, and the glaring contrast of it is just perfect

     

  4. when i talk about attractiveness in this context, i'm interested in how pleasing it is to look at someone or something from a passably impersonal point of view, so i won't touch on the side of attractiveness covered by whitney and don't think i even should since everything she said is solid

     

    good opening for discussion: i'll start by picking apart your argument. it is tl;dr but i'm in the mood for walls of text.

     

    your initial drug metaphor caves in when you compare the great deal of variance of human attraction against the numerical predictability of people's reactions to drugs. human attraction has an all to obvious variance across time and culture (even within subculture) that really makes 'innate universal beauty' dubious at best (of course there are likings for a few universal things like clean skin, nice teeth). there's a revealing biologist's provincialism when you make such claims in the social realm.

     

    also, equating visual stimuli and physical stimuli does a grave disservice to the former, since it's a human faculty in an entirely different ballpark, in that it's a place housing an entire complex system of semiotics. surely, people's ability to inscribe values and read differences between r.o dunks and nike dunks, and between a jewish 'hook nose' and a button nose, is far more complex a thing than being able to sense between hot and cold, and taste between sweet and bitter.

     

     
    is that coming from an extensive knowledge of pharmacology, or is that the impression you've been given by drugs which have been made widely available because their effects are adequately predictable and uniform?
    i believe beauty can be scientifically investigated more thoroughly than the popular opinion would lead us to believe, but my mission isn't to portray it as a concept that's anything but complex
    the perceived beauty of any feature associated with hygiene is pretty consistent, however, there are other consistently preferred or rejected features
    most of them relate to age, health, and sexual dimorphism
     
    if i were to speak of differences in regularly measured things like temperature or sweetness, then i'd compare them to differences in colors or sizes instead of differences in shoes or noses
    hopefully, you can see why i think the sensations you mentioned are inappropriately simple
     

    i'll turn towards 'the standardization of beauty,' which is where much of the contemporary literature (feminism, sociology, what have you) is focused on:

     

    asians getting plastic surgery to look more westernised (rhinoplasty, epicanthal eyelids, jawbone reconstruction), black women with straight hair (for some it’s natural due to mixed hertiage, for most it’s either a weave or a wig or a chemical straightener), and dark skin people getting chemical skin lightening — are all the too easy examples you could cite for change in beauty standards due to cultural contact with the west. the most obvious and used example of change of beauty perception is the contemporary liking for exaggeratedly thin females (to which some may say is an anomaly, in comparison the the past); surely, going by the evolutionist stand point, shouldn’t buxom women be more valued?    

     

    the comments i typically encounter which address how ethnicity impacts attractiveness strike me as reductive at best and resentful at worst

     

    how you explain the success of lucy liu and asian actresses with similar features in the west? saying some traits are favored by certain populations due to occidentalism doesn't always make sense
    large eyes, small noses, delicate jaws, and fair skin are associated with youth as are many other traits that have been favored in women for a long time
    is the west responsible for the world's obsession with neotenous women? i doubt it

     

    like many significant minorities, people who prefer exaggeratedly thin women get attention because they have outrageous opinions rather than because they're abundant, and i have every reason to believe eastern societies couldn't have gotten such a strong emphasis on slenderness from the west
    even in this community which is largely populated by individuals with notable interests in fashion, buxom women are quite appreciated!

     

    I remember reading an unfortunate psychology study of african american girls’ reaction to dolls. they associated white dolls as ‘good, pretty,’ desirable, and black dolls as ‘ugly, bad,’ etc. so young they were and yet the the internalised self hatred was to be found. 

     
    granted, you don’t need to be culturally trained to notice the difference between an asian face and an african face and a white face, or a chubby body and a skinny body, but it’s very hard to make the claim that the values and prestige ascribed, being different from one point in time to another, to certain physical characteristics is strongly due to innateness or evolution. 
     
    if beauty standards are innate, then korean men, and korean media, would be completely deterred by the numerous korean women getting plastic surgery to look more westernised, because, if i take the logics of evolution, prior to western contact natural selection put the asian face at the forefront for them, not some unfortunate chick with a nose and chin that has an expiry date (the stuff they inject needs to get re-injected from time to time). 

     

    caucasians definitely have greater reception to people african ancestry with relatively light skin and smooth hair, but they're often confused and frightened by the korean movements you're talking about, so the assertion that korean people use cosmetic surgery and makeup to look more like caucasian people leaves me feeling skeptical
    i'll show you what happens when a european embraces korea's most popular grooming techniques, and i'll also refer you to what i said about juvenile characteristics
     

    If Kate Moss stumbled upon some papua new guinean tribe, untouched by modernity, they wouldn’t erect statues and billboards all over the place in the honour of her beauty. They’d think ‘what a sickly skinny albino!'

     
    beauty may be verifiable and quantifiable, but why would that mean it only comes in a few varieties? what if the model in question was aline prado or karrueche tran? you're acting like this discussion revolves around skinny caucasians, and though it may be doing just that since you've spent so much time branding particular trends as attempts to westernize, i don't see why you're limiting the possibilities of what could be demonstrably attractive to protruding bones and pale skin
     
    fads come and go, and i suppose it could be said that an individual's adoption of fads is an involuntary result of evolution as well, but i don't even want to take that route because i'm concerned with timeless beauty
    being tan or pale isn't enough to be considered beautiful, and being thin or thick isn't enough to be considered desirable
    how the color of the hair compliments the color of the skin is usually more important than the color of either part, and how the size of the waist compares to that of the hips is usually more important than a lone measurement of either part
    i suppose that's why most people would say both zoe saldana and christina hendricks are attractive
    details will always be prioritized over elementary taxonomy, but details of this sort aren't easily articulated, so they're too often neglected during these examinations 
     

     

  5. i have the lamest nightmares

     

    when i dream about a truly horrifying or dangerous situation, it always turns out to be an enjoyable adventure

    the dreams that leave me in distress are usually mundane, unfortunate coincidences or mistakes on my part like driving into poles

     

    throughout my life, i've only had a single recurring dream in which i inexplicably find myself nude at work, class, or some kind of public event, and i sneak around while trying to find abandoned coats and sweaters

    i never find anything to cover myself with, but no one seems to notice me either
  6. minimum orders are a thing though, and a lot of the time full size runs are stipulated. this is in the label's best interest because it wastes the least amount of fabric and looks best for their books.

     

    more to the point you can't predict what will and won't sell, necessarily, and just cutting more XS or whatever can backfire if you end up with piles of XS at clearance instead. doing the big sizes is part of hedging your bets on what will get the maximum amount of sales and the minimum amount of clearance items. they're selling plenty of XLs, the stuff at the end of the season is just outliers and commercially unsuccessful designs.

     

    like if anything it's just indicative of fat people being self conscious in leather jackets, not poor business choices.

     

    i should have realized this simply because i rarely see sizes excluded when the current collections arrive, but i appreciate the enlightenment!

     

    not sure if this factors in but do a lot of people buying sizes bigger than their true size because that's how they want to wear it make a difference? Say medium is most popular amongst brand but people who wear medium buy the certain piece in a L or XL because they want a different fit. Is that a thing

     

    although it may not be terribly common, i'm sure it happens
    i like to buy some of ann's tank tops and sweaters in sizes which i'd be disappointed to find in any other case

     

    "most of us" actually meaning most of us here on the miniscule sample that is superfuture > supertrash. if u start spending more time in brick-and-mortars especially u begin to realize that a huge portion of the luxury market still is these larger (generally older) men & women -- 'specially men. these are the people & spouses with high, steady incomes, and they're out there casting dollar votes in bloomingdale's, bergdorf's, flagships, etc. buying sz. 52 rick leathers at full retail while the university student looking for an XS drkshdw tee deep sale on yoox is sitting at home wondering "now why doesn't anybody ever stock MY size ... ?"

    i think it's easy to look at whatever streetstyle blog, WAYWT thread and say, here's the skinny young ppl who make up the bulk of the mid-/high-end market because they're the ones who get the most representation. but really, nothing could be further from the truth . . . larger, well-established retailers have to lean on the guys & gals making seven figgers at age 38 to turn a profit, so it's ultimately their interests that are going to get representation. on the other hand, you've got places like LN-CC that say, "no, we WANT to focus on those kids, we think there's money in this online customer base who's not making that money, who's never set foot inside a high-end retail store" then crashes & burns, has to be bailed out because the model just isn't viable.

     

    i've accepted the fact that heavily circulated images don't represent most consumers, so i base my estimations on what the major retailers have available in their stores or on their websites in addition to what can typically be found in consignment shops and on auction websites

  7. it has to do with the way that you plan fabric orders and make cutting markers; plus the labels don't really care unless they get items sent back, their customers are the retail stores.

     

    i'd think the retailers would see that smaller sizes are in greater demand and adjust the orders they make in the future accordingly if only to make the most of their investments, and i'd think the manufacturer would have to accommodate those orders and would eventually produce fewer garments in the unwanted sizes for their own good

     

    if it hasn't happened yet, then i guess it isn't ever going to happen, so we're going to keep seeing clothes that most of us could swim in at the end of each season

  8. seeing such bland forms of eroticism makes me romanticize the past

     

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    why post pictures of the collections? because it's nice to have everything in one place and not have to search through all the websites to get what you want. the format of the pictures are bigger than the ones on sz but the quality is the fucking same. also the same for every other website who don't get them straight from the brands or pr agencies.

    The quality and clearness of the pictures is another thing. The quality of the pictures posted on style.com or fashionising aren't the best and I cannot change this.

     

     

    that's exactly why i don't recommend them

     

     

  9. when sales hit only the m, l, xl for clothes are left

    the shoes, only 5.5, 6s are left

     

    i haven't noticed that, but i'm probably biased since those are the sizes i usually wear, so it seems like i can never find them when i want to

     

    also, why do they even continue to produce so many garments in such large sizes when they always go on sale? it doesn't even help labels maintain exclusivity

  10. so you are saying that i should hotlink the 640x480 pictures of style.com like other websites do instead of uploading the HQ ones and resizing them in a 800x600 format?

    you are welcomed to email all the PR companies to tell them to send high quality PNGs and JPGs my way so i can upload them for big formats and thumbnails so i won't have to spend my time saving all the pictures, sorting out the good detail shots, renaming everything, uploading the whole lot and post everything on superfuture.

     

    or you can do it yourself if you really want to! members can post collections too!

     

    why would you assume that?

     

    i think you can see it's not a matter of what's allowed; you've already claimed this as your territory, so there's no point in anyone posting the same collections when whoever minds the size and quality of the images views them elsewhere

     

    you must believe it's a superfluous issue, but posting whole collections here when better images are available on so many other websites is already superfluous

  11. thing is that  most of those fools dont climb shit.  there are magazines devoted to this "style."  i mean there are some that aren't that offensive, but it's basically equivalent 2 japs who dont surf yet who dress and come off like they do

     

    the pheonomenon you're describing has always irked me, but i don't think it's more or less deplorable than the dandified glamorization of running and other physical activities that's become so popular lately

  12. i need to learn how to style my hair like this

     

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    that's not a very positive outlook

     

    who cares about societies constructs of what's good looking and what isn't?

     

    and if you aren't pleased with the way you look personally ask yourself why, every flaw somewhere is an advantage somewhere else...

     

    just about all of us care
     
    is there any drug that affects every single human in the same way? even though there isn't, we can still reasonably anticipate some fairly specific reactions
    there are patterns in how we respond to visual stimuli just as there are patterns in how we respond to physical stimuli, and the former is as much a result of evolution as the latter is
    drawing the line between constructs of society and innate preferences is difficult if not impossible
     
    i understand that an inclusive and positive attitude regarding fixed parts of our appearances is more pleasant than the alternative, but i don't think it's fair to dismiss his perception of beauty as the result of deliberate conformity
     
    anyway, i doubt a man who's chosen to resemble edith head cares a great deal about what society expects him to look like

     

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