gettoasty

^ listen to this guy

hey howl, are you in school?

i found that when i became less calculated it actually worked in my favor. this occurred during university when i was around people i was comfortable with and alcohol also helped. 

i remember 15 years ago or so when Yahoo! chat rooms were quite prevalent. I use to get on the mic in chat rooms and blast music or do some karaoke. i did voice chat and spoke mandarin to this chick at school frequently on aim, but between the pauses i still had time to think about what to type or catch my breath since my mandarin not so good. i have not used any of the web services or apps available nowadays but i imagine the pace is much faster. you should try responding with your first reaction but an honest one rather than dote on an "idea" then be filled with regret after you send the message. you may find that you'll come off as sincere, to the point, and if you're caught off guard relative to being in the middle of something at least you respond back and say 'hey, was grabbing something to bite in the kitchen, what's up?' without feeling like you are telling a white lie. that is a bad example but my point is when you get back to the chick you're talking to you will have a genuine reason why you texts suddenly stopped especially during a "heated exchange". 

people like to know that you are keeping yourself busy.

edit:

my point was also response to conquerors' post. you still young, it's all good. the EB games comment made me laugh inside.  

adding you, anyone can add me as well: alexei_vronsky

 

currently jp time, but will be relocating to san diego soon

started my ps4 after like a month to play division, realized that two friends (both having just ps3) are not enough for this.

add gamertag: aarghdanii

thx

Eye_Lids (i play on PC)

not saying it's right, but schad's right. when you swipe based on a headshot & and someone shows up "internet approved" it may illicit a "huh, wha?"

how is this the same thing? "Internet approved" was reference to dress, i thought. Your headshot is capture of yourself. Two different types of attractions, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And I referenced the same thing in my post about looks being a factor more so than dress if you are going to judge someone solely on appearance. 

howl was not wearing a wife beater and wide leg trousers anyways, fycus was being smartass 

i would think online dating means keeping an open mind to who you're matched with, whether by choice or the algorithms behind the screen. i just don't think so much emphasis should be made on what you're wearing that day of the date. of course looks matter for that first impression but i thought fycus was talking strictly about his way of dress. nothing wrong with wearing a wife beater and wide leg trousers if you can pull it off. aren't these online dates suppose to be on the casual side anyways, at least the first meet. people can tell if you are comfortable in your own skin and IMO that is more than anything a positive signal.

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i met up with a friend of a friend and got some great feedback on coffee meets bagel. gives me hope. 

that's nice howl 

fycus: i can understand why it may be cringe worthy but i think it's kind of cute actually. and wth does your dress have anything to do with it. i'm assuming he is dating girls that share some same interests. 

Not co-workers but I see guys all the time in the restroom after lunch. I will ask around if anyone has floss but I do think brushing your teeth at the public sink is too much. And there is always water all over the countertop. 

My initial remark was bad. But if you guys are going to try and read this any differently, w/e. I did not mean literally pick a winner but it was stated as part of the "rules" by the OP. 

Before another swap is started consider wrapping up the last one.

If a few bad apples left a sour taste in everyone's mouth that sucks and is good enough of a reason I guess to call a stop.  

FWIW

just keeping it real. i had a lot of fun w// it fwiw. i rec'd some softcore porn and hentai. best part was probably reading gantz. it's too bad your partner bailed. 

i don't know why an admin does not mod these type of events. 

didn't whitney say she would pick a winner, too? this is what i meant with my comment. i guess b/c of some people not getting their exchange the whole idea got axed. 

gl

so, you were the loser

who was the winner?

i'm down if someone can give me the low down as t o the conclusion of v8

anyone?

gg

 

Good game indeed

Sounds like it hurts

Arrived at work at the same time as another co-worker. We enter the front door at the same time. I always take the stairs and for a split second I saw her pace slow down as if to process where I would be going relative to her direction, which was the elevator. It's okay if you take the elevator, no shame in that. It was more awkward because after saying 'good morning' in the parking lot we walked in complete silence thereafter. the body language awkwardness. lol

just found this hilarious

https://vine.co/v/iWilOOvqTqZ/embed

just got cs:go and joined the sufu steam group. anyone got recs for fixing sound? can't seem to hear footsteps as well as 1.6

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2015/11/23/a-giant-blanket-of-spiderwebs-appeared-in-tennessee-but-dont-panic/

The latest viral spider news is horrifying at face value: Residents of North Memphis, Tenn., were treated to an unexpectedly white Thanksgiving when a spider web at least half a mile long appeared on the grass.

Meeting with this client and he was talking about being 62, retired on SS and needing more of that money to live the lifestyle. 

At the end of the meeting we shook hands, and shared a few more words about that life. He then reached out to try to shake my hand again but his hand was sort of in a fist, and I remember he's about that life, so, I reached out with my fist to reciprocate. But we just sort of grazed each other's knuckles. I think he turned around with a smirk kind of like "wtf". I said bye and walked away. 

good you finding something that helps.

I got a shy bladder but i've been overthinking it my entire life i think. 

i don't even care now when i walk out of the office or restroom 2 to 3 times just to piss because i know some other person is in the room. i don't think this is good for me long term.

maybe i should consider taking some medicine too. 

what bladder problem? how?

you got a shy bladder?

Do the meds help you not overthink things? 

ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

this job

ffffffffffffff

yes it ended up being about $13 with signature confirmation.

(but if you add in the shoe trees it's like $33)

hehh